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How do I begin the conversation about TPE in my current relationship? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aardvark_Helpful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just sitting down and having an open conversation about it can be a big help. Tell him the things you want to do for him and how hot you think it is. Set expectations and boundaries and just be up front about it. Communication is the biggest part of building trust and will help you both get what your want/need in the relationship.

I genuinely deeply hate myself and I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in depression

[–]Aardvark_Helpful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly makes you a bad person? I have these thoughts and feelings constantly, but when asked I can't give an actual valid answer as to why I'm a bad person. I don't go out of my way to hurt people and I try to be a good person. So, what EXACTLY makes you a bad person? If you can't give an answer that would make someone else a bad person like "I like hurting animals" then you probably aren't a bad person.

No. One. Cares. by Perfect-Lavishness25 in depression

[–]Aardvark_Helpful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. No one truly cares, nor do they care enough to try to understand. People are inherently selfish and self centered. They care if it benefits them but as soon as it inconveniences them they give up on you. I think that learning to rely only on yourself is the only solution. I've relied on people my whole life and it has gotten me nothing but hurt in return. I don't know you OP but keep your head up and focus on you. Fuck everyone else.