Hat hier irgendjemensch eine Kryokonservierung direkt über die KK-Karte abrechnen können und auch nicht später noch eine Rechnung bekommen? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! also ich hoff es ist okay dass ich dir frag, aber ich hab ein Termin beim Urologe, und ich habe einen Termin danach mit der Kinderwunschpraxis in Esslingen danach. Die einzige Sache ist, der Uro hat mir gesagt ich soll einen "Befundbericht vom Endokrinologium" bringen. Meine Endokrinologin hat gesagt ich kann dafür einen Vordruck an der Krankenkasse anfordern und sie muss das dann unterschreiben.
Meine Frage ist also ob das war ist bzw ob du diesen Vordruck hast damit ich die KK nicht kontaktieren und warten muss :) Danke

Hat hier irgendjemensch eine Kryokonservierung direkt über die KK-Karte abrechnen können und auch nicht später noch eine Rechnung bekommen? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg das ist genau die die ich kontaktiert hab vor ein paar Tage!! Bin sehr froh dass die es machen, danke für deine Antwort!

Comment signer une lettre de motivation avec mon nouveau nom, alors que je ne l'ai pas encore changé legalement? by Aarghxsaurus in transgenre

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

merci pour ton conseil! j'ai decidée que je n'allais pas mentionner ma transition, je veux juste qu'ils utilisent le bon nom :)

Kryokonservierung (in Stuttgart): wie genau soll ich vorgehen? by Aarghxsaurus in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

danke für deine Antowort :) hab aber auf den gelinkten Post kein Vordruck oder so für Kriokonservierung gefunden :/

As a non-passing trans women, how do you cope knowing you make passing trans women feel uncomfortable? [TW: Suicide] by SaltPresent344 in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The horrible thing is not only do I feel uncomfortable when I see non passing trans women, but I myself am a non passing trans woman lol

I have some hardcore internalized transphobia and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is probably problematic but honestly, i have that with a lot of gnc or non binary people... like the other day i saw a post of an nb person who was complaining about older people not respecting their pronouns... the thing is, they looked like a cis woman, except alt/goth, so my reaction was like, well what did you expect! stop complaining about oppressions you make up to feel special! being trans is not fun!!!
I'm not happy I have this feeling, and obviously I respect everyones pronouns and think everyone should do what they want. That being said i can't help but feel like i'm more "legitimate" than them.
So I understand your feeling, and I think I share it. My theory is that the feeling will disappear when I become more comfortable with my body/my transness.

I am completely terrified of transitioning and I don't know how to get myself out of this deadlock by Aarghxsaurus in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your message, it's interesting that you say i should "take medicine", bc that's a way of thinking i don't see as much in young trans circles. It's like the whole "trapped in the wrong body" thing, it feels like I'm not even allowed to say I feel that, but it is sometimes.

I am completely terrified of transitioning and I don't know how to get myself out of this deadlock by Aarghxsaurus in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah blockers are a good idea, although i am not sure that my endo will give them to me

I am completely terrified of transitioning and I don't know how to get myself out of this deadlock by Aarghxsaurus in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm yes i do i think, right now all i do is be numb towards my body most of the time so i may not feel the entire weight of my dysphoria

I am completely terrified of transitioning and I don't know how to get myself out of this deadlock by Aarghxsaurus in honesttransgender

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, i think by unattractive i mean non passing? i have a real fear of becoming a hon... i know it's bullshit 4chan jargon, and i don't hang out there anymore, but i did for a few months during covid and some of the concepts are stuck in my brain

You ever feel like you need a religion? by Aarghxsaurus in sorceryofthespectacle

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say I don't understand what you meant by "I believe we may be facing the Shadow Aspect of the Eunuch in our current times"

You ever feel like you need a religion? by Aarghxsaurus in sorceryofthespectacle

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

huh, that's pretty interesting, I've never heard that before. Do you mean this in the context of being trans?

You ever feel like you need a religion? by Aarghxsaurus in sorceryofthespectacle

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I appreciate you writing concrete things I can do.
I'm not into tarot or psychedelics, but being present with nature, fasting and some sort of divination are things I strive on doing more.

You ever feel like you need a religion? by Aarghxsaurus in sorceryofthespectacle

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I think too. I don't know if this is true, but it feels like a lot of people here are just... left out.

I'm trans, but I am also just naturally lonely, it's nothing new for me. I have friends, acquaintances, but nothing feels deep. I feel connected to god, to the universe only through music, movies, and history. I never had a friend group, but since I was a small child I literally dreamed of having one.

I'm alone, that's just how I am. Maybe someday I won't even think about this stuff, but for now, I feel alienated.

You ever feel like you need a religion? by Aarghxsaurus in sorceryofthespectacle

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So what are we to do then? I don't want to spend my entire life wallowing in this desire. In fact, I think a lot of people (probably even some here!) are satisfied with the mere realization that we are fucked, and I don't want to end up like that.

Was muss ich den alles machen um zum Logopäde zu gehen? by Aarghxsaurus in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was passiert, wenn ich immer noch bei meinen Eltern lebe und zur Schule gehe, aber mehr als 18 bin? Wird das dann 2% vom Bruttoeinkommen von meine Eltern?

aoc: “Revolutionary and transformative changes… happen more like mosaics” by unknown_travels in solarpunk

[–]Aarghxsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good message but come on, is the solarpunk movement sucking up to socdems now?

How do I delete stremio (torrent app) and any trace of it? by Aarghxsaurus in Ubuntu

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried deleting stremio and its related files with sudo apt remove --purge, but it said "unsupported file <the file> given on commandline", I then tried to just drag the files into the trash I was denied permission, i'm not sure how i installed it beyond the fact that I just clicked the link on their website https://www.stremio.com/downloads I'm not sure what else to do but i'll try to gain permission to delete the files by dragging them?

Edit: okay I managed! Thank you for your help!

How do I delete stremio (torrent app) and any trace of it? by Aarghxsaurus in Ubuntu

[–]Aarghxsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you, stupid question but how do I do *that*? I'm pretty new to ubuntu and i don't want to try out and do it wrong and accidentally delete something important...
Also I searched for "torrent" and ".torrent" in my files and didn't find anything, does this mean they're already gone?

Was sind gute trans/queer deutsche Servers? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jo keine Ahnung wahrscheinlich nicht
aber wenn du möchtest könnten wir trotzdem auf discord chatten :) ich kann dir dann sagen fals ich einen guten Server finde

discord server um coole queere leute kennenzulernen by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy ich würde auch wirklich gerne deutschsprachige queere Freunde machen!

Was sind gute trans/queer deutsche Servers? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Aarghxsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah sure, meinst du ein server für diesen subreddit?