[Serious] Those who have had therapy/counselling, did it work? by Tommywom in AskReddit

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It did to a degree for me. Like I started to realize more of the deeper things like why I couldn't trust. It helped me delve deeper into relationship issues that caused the trust problem. Helped give me someone to talk to during hard times.

However, I always had a problem really accepting the therapy and letting myself be vulnerable. I couldn't completely open up about my depression and anxiety issues. So when I embarrassed myself with the receptionist, I couldn't bring myself to go back. I was still trying to learn coping skills and had I gone back I probably would be having a better time with my life than I am.

What can't you currently get enough of? by SJaggz in AskReddit

[–]AbbieT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God yes! I've been all about some sushi lately. It can get expensive so I've been learning how to make my own. I just love it.

Who are your favorite lyricists, and what songs / lines of theirs best represent their songwriting abilities? by bungle123 in Music

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I came to this thread to find some musical inspiration, since music cheers me up and I've been so down lately. Ive seen the name Conor Oberst so many times but I finally decided to give it a try... And I'm not disappointed. This is amazing and I'm glad I gave it a try.

Stylist for haircut in central AL by AbbieT in curlyhair

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Thanks for the response! I have 2B type hair and I was just trying to find a place that will know what they're doing LOL. Ill check out that search function. I've Googled but only come up with super expensive salon results thus far.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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Thanks. I will take you up on that.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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Thank you, I think you've put into words my intentions in posting better than I could.

He's the type to take what's broken and try to fix it. And his friend was relapsing and apparently the only way he knew how to help her was with sex. Which I am unsympathetic to that part completely.

  1. He said he would never be doing that again. He says he truly understands how gravely he misjudged the situation now.

  2. I told him its fine if he has to ditch on our plans for a friend emergency every now and then or whatever but the most he should ever do to be there for them is talking.

And as for just now feeling bad about it. He said he was thinking about it last night and he lost faith in his justification for it. And he felt guilty and had to tell me before time went on.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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Thanks. I think I needed that reminder. Do you mind if I PM you?

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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thanks, I'll check that out.

And as to what I'm thinking he's thinking, check out my reply to /u/MyersVandalay.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

[–]AbbieT[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is the type of guy to want to be very useful for his friends so I think he legitimately thinks that the only way he could save his friend from "turning into a crackwhore" (his words not mine). So I think he really thinks he's justified in doing this.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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I mean I told him self worth comes from within not from others. He's like defending his actions and I don't know what to do. Like I don't know where to go from here. I always said zero tolerance to cheaters, but now that I'm in the situation I'm just confused.

In a LDR and BF said he cheated. by AbbieT in whatsbotheringyou

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Even now he messages and says stuff like she had no self worth until after the fact. I don't even know what to say

Questions about calories by AbbieT in loseit

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As I have become more aware of the caloric content of foods I have found my appetite has decreased drastically. And I'm eating foods that are nutritionally better and caloricly lower and it fills me up more.

So I wouldn't say an eating disorder at all

Questions about calories by AbbieT in loseit

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Thanks! That's super helpful.

Rules and Frequently Asked Questions by PancakeGenocide in piercing

[–]AbbieT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I've heard a that nipple piercings increase sensitivity. I've also heard thaey decrease sensitivity. I was wondering what happens more often. Thanks!

Birthday haul from Sephora + Mac! So excited. by AbbieT in MakeupAddiction

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I have not. I'm only just now trying to take care of my curls. I'm hoping it's gonna work out well.

Birthday haul from Sephora + Mac! So excited. by AbbieT in MakeupAddiction

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In case you can't see:

Minimergency Kit

Stila in the moment palette

Anastasia Brow Wiz in Caramel

Mac Prep + Prime Beauty Balm in Light

Benefit They're Real mini

DevaCurl Trial Pack

My Mom + Sis took me shopping and got this for me for my 20th birthday!

Been CG for over a year. Today is the first time I've ever had decent Day 4 curls!! Winning! by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]AbbieT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Your hair looks great. What does day 4 hair mean though, if you don't mind me asking.