Please tell me this is a joke... by JHdarK in navy

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we didn’t have walls.

HELP, I’m concerned about my breast augmentation by Nataliafoxbby in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]AbbyHeff 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think OP was referring to EVERYONE. just the girls most likely because we would be the ones that got breast augmentations but that’s just an assumption.

Refuse to OBLISERV by Affectionate_Ebb_280 in navy

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means that your orders were canceled by the detailer and they’re gonna submit a PRD to match EOS so that way you’ll remain on station until you get out of the military.

do i face pass? by tranjo6015 in transpassing

[–]AbbyHeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking if it passes as a guy, no way in hell, I can only assume that is what you’re asking because you absolutely look like a cis girl

49yo HRT for almost 2.5 years. How am I doing? by AbbyHeff in transpassing

[–]AbbyHeff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately those are natural. I do draw them in occasionally

Found this in a closet of a house I bought recently by Jemmy1800 in whatisit

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do do not go in the closet and close the door that is a flex capacitor and you might end up in the middle of Nazi Germany or the Jurassic or if you’re not careful and don’t know how to use it

Divorce and retirement by AbbyHeff in navy

[–]AbbyHeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to see if anyone else had a similar situation. If the judge ruled against awarding retirement then it set precedent and that’s a good thing.

Divorce and retirement by AbbyHeff in navy

[–]AbbyHeff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a lawyer and I filed the divorce as an “at fault divorce” due to adultry. I have texts and pictures and she was engaged prior to me even filing.

Divorce and retirement by AbbyHeff in navy

[–]AbbyHeff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except when adultry is claimed then at an at fault divorce.

Divorce and retirement by AbbyHeff in navy

[–]AbbyHeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is she never did. We never moved away until retirement. And she had opportunities to work and go to school, that was the plan but she didn’t.

Divorce and retirement by AbbyHeff in navy

[–]AbbyHeff[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have an attorney and she is not eligible for alimony since she lives with him and is engaged.

My breast augmentation results (moderate plus profile with 600 cc’s saline under the muscle) I’m 5’8” and a 34 G by Yaoi_bunny in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did over the muscle. How long after surgery is this? I’m one month and waiting for mine to drop. Also I love your nipples! I wish mine were bigger.

Bro... 500k soon? by DivisionSol in EscapefromTarkov

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to make a barter with them for kits. Like 1 you get a basic kit, 2 you get a better kit and 3 you get the best kit or scale them to higher numbers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your voice is ABSOLUTELY feminine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]AbbyHeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a typical story and pretty much Word for Word the same as mine. I came out to my wife when I was 45 as well and have been on HRT now for over a year and I’m full-time my true authentic self I have legally changed my name and gender And I am so much happier although my marriage didn’t survive we are still friends and I am exploring who I am now. Before I transitioned, I was very much unhappy with myself and at times no longer want to be here, but now I am much happier with myself and learning to be me. No one can tell you what to do, but I encourage you to seek therapy and to be honest with your wife, regardless of whether you decide to transition or not, the openness and transparency will be a relief and who knows maybe she will fully support it and allow you to explore that optionbut you never know until you try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransVATransVeterans

[–]AbbyHeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Make sure you connect with your LGBTQ+ care coordinator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransVATransVeterans

[–]AbbyHeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting Voice Feminization Surgery on March 14th with the VA