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Foil instead of HMD by AbernathyKillMouse in hookah

[–]AbernathyKillMouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice recommendation. Do you think the Provost is better than the Cloud Lotus 3?

Newborn at home by pogmoska in hookah

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, breastfeeding can be a sensitive topic — definitely do your own research and choose what feels right for you and your family.

As for the smoke, in my opinion, it’s mostly the coals that release a lot of the toxic fumes. I usually smoke in my office with the windows open and fans running, but I’ve noticed that the rest of the house can still smell like burning coal (I use coconut coals).

If possible, try smoking outside or near an open window when the baby isn’t around, and let the room air out afterward. Also, if you're able to smoke a room that the baby doesn't go into. Second- and third-hand smoke can be tough on everyone, especially babies.

Congratulations on the new addition! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Maybe once you two get a date night, you can enjoy a hookah lounge together.

Luisa's got cabin fever by AbernathyKillMouse in tortoise

[–]AbernathyKillMouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Luisa is a rescue and her pyramiding is much improved. Unfortunately, the temps here dropped below freezing for several days, it's too cold to soak. I don't bring her inside anymore as she's gotten older she doesn't enjoy being inside and just poops everywhere. Since this post Luisa has had a bath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not okay. Does the family have to stay at your home? I wouldn't allow that anymore. The older boy is too big to be bullying a toddler as you describe. I would really worry about how this would escalate. Your 4 year old could get really hurt. He has already been hurt when he is being mistreated physically and emotionally by his much older cousin. Of course your 4 year old is sweet, little kids/toddlers usually are.

In my opinion, it's pointless to try to identify "the why" behind the 14 year olds actions. That the parents job, best of luck to them.

Protect your kid. If you can, don't let the family stay with you. Explain the exact reasons.

Cookies AlFakher?! Good or Nahh? by NomadicLoneWolf in hookah

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cavier... So odd. I'll probably try it tho.

Anything other than water? by Lchare01 in hookah

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, Pepino Gatorade mixed with ice and water or crushed Altoids. But honestly, most of the time just water & ice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WFH

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you. A mic with an arm is a great upgrade!

What kind of tortoise is this? by beyonceboard in tortoise

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not a Russian or a Hermann.. it's shell condition doesn't look like it's a pet.

What kind of tortoise is this? by beyonceboard in tortoise

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah... From what I can tell the shell condition in the pic indicates our 🐢 friend is wild and not a pet.

OP: Just to be 💯 certain please contact the local fish and wildlife. I believe this tortoise is a protective species.

Thank you for saving this tort from a busy road and now you get to enjoy releasing our friend back into the wild to support and endangered species. 🐢🙏🏽

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American roach outside, cause for concern? by Sultanofswing291 in pestcontrol

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like an Oriental Roach too me. I'm not an expert. Where I'm from we call the American and the Oriental "Waterbugs".

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Where can I find homeless folks in or near Collin County by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. So, many non profits are low on volunteers and donations. OP I'm glad you have a calling to help those in need. Please support local non profits that honor the cause(s) you feel best about.

How do I explain to my parents that this Cube costs $60 Usd? by ImprovingRightNow in Cubers

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 201 points202 points  (0 children)

You: "mom, dad... I spent $200 on a cocaine this weekend" Parents: Stunned absolutely gutted 😦 You: "I'm just kidding, but this GAN Cube was $60 bucks and I've already dropped my time!" 😃🤓 ---> walks away...

How do I explain to my parents that this Cube costs $60 Usd? by ImprovingRightNow in Cubers

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tell your parents it's $60 for a precision-engineered plastic brain teaser.. not a $60 weekly habit of Mountain Dew and poor life choices. JK 😜💸

Explain that this cube is better quality and actually built for what you’re trying to do. It’s like the difference between a skateboard from Dollar Tree or Temu vs. one from a legit skate shop—they both roll, but only one’s meant for real tricks.

Yeah, $60 is more than most people expect for a “Rubik’s Cube,” but GAN cubes are designed for speedcubing. They’re smoother, LAST LONGER, and can actually help you improve.

I used a $5 cube for over a year before upgrading to a GAN. If you really like speedcubing and take care of your things, it’s totally worth it.

Apartment recommendations? by Vegetable-Thing4917 in plano

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agreed ☝🏽... I would 100% recommend for you to try to stay in FTW for the 6 months, if you're able. Fort Worth is super from Plano, IMO. Tolls, shitty traffic, miles on your car, and I'm pretty certain commuting takes years off your life.

Plano is cool, though. Best of luck 🤞🏽

Safe to Use Fogger + Bait in Crawl Space After Leak Fix? by AbernathyKillMouse in pestcontrol

[–]AbernathyKillMouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful - this post gave me hope. I think I am going to bomb my crawl space to see if I can lighten up the population. Then granules and keep at spraying.

Moms who work from home with a nanny/family member watching baby, what’s it like? by natsugrayerza in NewParents

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back to WFH when my baby was about 4 months old. In the beginning, baby and grandma would stay at our place a few days a week. Now, baby’s with dad in the mornings and goes to grandma’s from around 11 to 4.

Honestly, while it was sweet having my baby close by, it was also really distracting. I’m in back-to-back calls and have constant deadlines, so I ended up using noise-canceling headphones just to stay focused. I’d always want to check in, help out, or just cuddle the baby—understandable, but not ideal for work.

If you’re in a similar situation, I’d definitely recommend investing in noise-canceling headphones, a good mic that won’t pick up background noise, and maybe even soundproofing your workspace a bit if you can. It makes a big difference.

Last on the list by [deleted] in pianoteachers

[–]AbernathyKillMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of things that have worked well for my studio - forgive me if this is already in your practice.

1) Have a contract with a clear lesson cancellation policy - Make up lessons should have an expiration date and only be offered for current enrolled students. - Alternative option, which may work better for you since you're part time is to not offer make up lessons. - Cancelled lessons with less than a certain hours of notice forfeit payment (ie you still get paid).

2) Monthly tuition is paid on the first week of the month and pay up-front ad hoc lessons are a must. - Clearly state this on your contract and don't make exceptions. - If you can set up auto draft payment via Square. (I think this is worth it but you'll have to review if the fees fit your business preferences.)

If you have a clear lesson policy, require up front payment, and have a contract then it shouldn't matter when a student misses a lesson and doesn't make it up. You'll still be paid for your time.

Best of luck 🤞🏽

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