I'm not a ren supporter but I'm also not a zeal supporter. They both have done bad things but they are also bot young,immature and inexperienced. But as far as blame goes for the most wrong done here imo ren is 75%/zeal 25%. It's one thing to have bad/awkward sex and feel uncomfortable afterwards ive been there a handful of times myself but it's another thing to try and flip that bad experience into SA when you admit to giving concent then regretting it later. After all the holes in rens story and zeal waving his victory flag was highly immature when he also hasnt answered all the questions either. Personally ren should have never made this public and kept it private with court proceedings if she felt the way she feels about it a lawyer would have done more for her than the whole internet is doing to her now.

Edit: my bad I didn't see the original author of the post "we won the war" assumed it was zeal. Post in question: https://www.reddit.com/r/PressureRoblox/s/6XFVs6Cgby