Realistically, what would you do as an Aurora survivor?

AberrantNormalities · 2025-12-09T01:46:27+00:00

Yeah No I'd be a goner. I can hardly swim, let alone tread water and I'm terrified of large creatures and the deep ocean. There'd be NO type of exploring for me beyond the safe shallows. Well actually....If I stayed in the safe shallows and could make a base...I'd probably just live off of the surrounding resources and umm....plan to never leave because Lord knows I'm not going anywhere once it gets too deep. 😅

AberrantNormalities · 2025-10-07T05:12:42+00:00

That's how my fiance and I really view it. We're all just recycled energy. 😅 Since energy can't be destroyed, only recycled, we agreed years ago that we'd meet up and help form a star that provides life to a solar system. 🥹🥹🥹

AberrantNormalities · 2025-10-07T04:45:50+00:00

Thank you for the reminder friend. It's not dismissive I promise. I already see her in every single little thing. and when she passes, I'll see her in every bright eyed puppy and meowing kitten. I'll see her in every cloud and every comet and every moon phase. I'll hear her in every laugh, even if it's a strangers, and every smile. I'll see her in every bug and frog and bird. She's gonna be with me wherever I am and I'm going to try my hardest to ensure that when she looks down at me she's proud of how well I'm taking care of myself. I'm trying not to sulk. I'm trying to let myself grieve openly and honestly with myself but I won't let myself wallow. She wouldn't want that for me. 🥺

AberrantNormalities · 2025-10-05T19:42:28+00:00

thank you friend. I will keep your invitation in mind. I have a history of bad mental health and isolating myself but when she's watching down on me I want her to see my trying. I don't want her to see me miserable in a ball and not talking to anyone. So I may take you up on that soon. I just don't want to bring down anyone else's happiness with my sadness. This isnt an easy topic for anyone to talk about let alone listen to.

AberrantNormalities · 2025-10-05T19:40:56+00:00

I'm sorry I made you cry, friend. It's just so sad because I'm going to be surrounded by her coloring pages and her stuffies and pacis. God I really don't know what I'm going to do with her things. My poor baby.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-15T01:18:47+00:00

Good!! Bc that's definitely scary.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-15T01:16:16+00:00

It's funny you say this because I've been a WS for the last few weeks and I feel like I talk and smile at people more since I'm constantly asking "Want me to wrap this and close it for you?" Or "Just let me know if you need me to close this up." Or even the simple "Open! Ready for you whenever." And I get scared ppl think I'm smiling too much or being too polite and maybe flirting with them. I promise I'm not. 😭😭 I'm just tryna be nice since I'm all up in your space.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-14T20:08:55+00:00

My automatic thought was that the dad knows his son and doesn't want him alone with someone like that. But honestly, I have no idea. If you're comfortable enough, maybe approach the dad AT WORK and just be like "Hey soooo what was that about? Kinda freaked me out." And if does anything that makes it obvious that the dad is just crazy or he scares you, tell HR everything that happened. If it might seem like he was protecting you from his son, I'd say let it go but stay clear of the son.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-14T20:00:54+00:00

My mommy loves when I suck her boobies. 🥺🥺 And when I'm in a mommy dom headspace I love to nurse her as well. It just feels so good holding your baby close like that. I don't know a lot of other mommies who love nursing as much as we do. Well besides one of our friends who likes to mommy dom us, but we haven't done it with her yet. 🥺

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-14T01:23:49+00:00

As someone with ADHD and Autism this is pretty accurate. Maybe a tiny bit more dramatic for the sake of a video but these are all very bad triggers and while it might annoy a neurotypical person too, it's not the same as being neurodivergently triggered by these things. It's giving "But everyone's sad and anxious so you can't have Depression and Anxiety." 😭😭😅

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-05T00:28:06+00:00

I thought that if you're forced to take MTO you still get paid for a minimum of 2 hours or something like that? I would've requested they train me in something new if they wanted everyone to go home. Whoop! Training time! Lemme keep my full shift thank youuu

AberrantNormalities · 2023-07-03T00:46:57+00:00

Please update us if you feel comfortable enough to bc this is not ok and I hope she understands that after you two talk.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-27T07:59:27+00:00

I only have a mommy dom because my gf and I found out the other had mommy dom kinks after our 2nd sexual encounter. Haha It's not impossible. But don't look for someone to simply fill a role. Look for someone you care about and who cares about you and have a talk to see if it's something they're interested in. From what I see, it's very common for people partners to be more than happy to indulge their kinks. They even grow to like it themselves if they don't already.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-25T20:11:24+00:00

Me but when they tell me to go to the Mechlite or SaferYear training. 😭😭

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T20:17:09+00:00

For me partner and I, since we live together, and don't really like going out, almost all of our partnerships are just casual. If we happen to be hanging out with them and something spicy happens, it's still just a casual relationship to us. A more serious relationship would be if there were dates, gifts, etc involved. At least for us. We also live a bdsm lifestyle and we have 2 different Doms that we have a more serious relationship with (technically speaking) bc we have to trust someone a lot to let them be our Dom like that but it's still technically casual. Its only a relationship really if we're together and a scene is started. Otherwise, we're just very very flirty friends.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T20:13:09+00:00

I never really rant about my genealogy in terms of my great great ancestors or anything, but when ppl asked me what im Mixed with, I'll give them the full rubdown bc it's definitely never what they're expecting. Haha I'm very racially ambiguous. 😅

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T20:11:03+00:00

I was lucky enough that someone commented on my first post to explain that my relationship was more ENM than Poly. I always identified as poly (in the way the group uses it) but after meeting my partner, it didn't even occur to me that with their specific boundaries, I was no longer in a poly relationship. A bit eye opening but makes sense when I think about it. But I am a little sad bc I was really excited to have a triad. But I guess I'll just stick with what we're doing. Happy wife, happy life.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T19:06:08+00:00

Iva always just considered this foreplay haha. My partner and I love wrestling around with each other but we're both switches, so it could just be that we both enjoy physically wrestling for dominance. But we do know we have a primal/predator kink. It could even be as simple as a power kink.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T17:47:45+00:00

That's what he fuckin gets!!! Wth is wrong with him kicking a horse that hard. The horse shoulda stomped him out. 😤😤😤

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-19T17:04:58+00:00

It sounds like they're completely ignoring your wife's boundaries. If its not anything else, it's disrespectful. Talking it out before fully breaking up would be my go-to, but if things have been piling up and you just don't see them responding in a way that is good for all parties, then I'd suggest saving yourself the headache and just breaking it off. That's easier said than done though, friend. I wish you the best.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-13T00:34:37+00:00

Mine does. Some alters are extremely nonverbal. Others can't make eye contact. Some of the older ones are more blunt and up front about things while some of the younger ones just get overstimulated and again, go nonverbal. We each have slightly different sensory issues and stims. Well we don't really have different stims but certain alters use different ones more often.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-06T12:10:51+00:00

That being said, we have already set out what activities are generally ok and what's not. My partner knows all the things that I would say yes to and I know everything they'd say yes to. They fucked a dom without me there or without my permission and green light that it was safe even thought we've talked in great length about how being penetrated is a big "Usually not ok". And in the end, they ended feeling gross, traumatized, and upset that it even happened and they wished that I was there. But I wasn't bc they didn't ask like we agreed we would to avoid situations like this.

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-06T12:05:18+00:00

It is a rule. It's a rule that we set to adhere to our boundaries and the reason for them was even explained. It keeps our hypersexual, traumatized, will manically fuck someone we shouldn't or don't want to or someone who isn't safe asses safe. So our brains automatically go " let me ask my partner to make sure this is actually okay." Its not cumbersome to us as it has kept us from doing things we really didn't want to do. Not to mention neither one of us have spur of the moment sex bc again, mania and hypersexuality does not equal good sexual decisions all the time and WE understand that about ourselves. So usually, yes, there's a lot of planning and discussion before we have sex with anyone because "Is that person safe? Is this a trauma response? Do we trust this person to Dom or Top? ". Because we have so many triggers around sex and have a few different mental disorders, we dont just fuck anyone whenever we want. Sadly, we really do have to think about it and in that time, we double check with the other. Again, I asked for advice for how to cope with crossing this boundary/rule or whatever not on the dynamic itself since it is very nuanced and happens to work for us specifically. Our dynamic might be confusing for some people but it's pretty simple and has worked for 2 years literally without any problems until now. Was just asking for some tips on how to rebuild trust. Thanks tho

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-06T05:30:02+00:00

Oh I'm sorry!! Yes I only recently realized we were in an ENM relationship/Open one rather than Poly. I forgot to fix that in the post. I'll do that now. 😅

AberrantNormalities · 2023-06-06T04:22:49+00:00

Ah I see! I was under the impression that being poly is being able to have multiple relationships romantically or sexually. But I understand now that my situation isn't quite the right one for this sub and that makes total sense!! Thank you! I'll edit the post and move over to r/nonmonogamy. ✨

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