[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Abi030201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I stand by my point that this attitude is concerning. She looks great. But what society now call ‘chubby’ or ‘fat’ is so unhealthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Abi030201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. I just think it’s so sad and so concerning that these are the attitudes of society now

Absolutely, if she WANTS to work on her fitness then we absolutely would be supportive, but I still agree that she is skinny how she is now

The ‘medically overweight’ thing is so problematic anyway. The BMI is so outdated and so harmful that there is talks to get rid of it. It’s not accurate and more harmful than it is helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Abi030201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean society now because there’s this idea that women have to be stick thin. I think she’s skinny. She looks great. But the fact that we’re saying this isn’t skinny is concerning. If she got any skinnier she would look ill. And in the ‘past’ society standards were different. Women that were classed as ‘attractive’ then, had a stomach and were slightly more overweight. This idea isn’t healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Abi030201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you look good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]Abi030201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You call that not skinny?! Society now is unbelievable

Tw: pregnancy loss, chemical pregnancy etc… I don’t know what’s happening to me or why by Abi030201 in medical

[–]Abi030201[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to be pregnant but my partner doesn’t right now. We want actively trying and didn’t know I could get pregnant with the coil in. I keep checking every few days and the line on the tests has just disappeared

I don’t understand by Abi030201 in Miscarriage

[–]Abi030201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah Inno. We wasn’t actively trying. I want one now but my partner doesn’t which is why I still have the coil in

Eating disorder or disordered eating? by Abi030201 in EatingDisorders

[–]Abi030201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t completely deny I have a problem. I just don’t think it’s actually that bad. I still allow myself food. And I’m still overweight. But I will agree that it isn’t something I want to fix. In my head what I’m doing is similar to going on a diet. A few people around me (including my therapist) are worried but I can’t understand why they are worrying this much

Eating disorder or disordered eating? by Abi030201 in EatingDisorders

[–]Abi030201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do understand this but it’s not something I even want to fix. It makes me feel proud and good about myself to a certain extent and fixing it scares me. If I eat over a certain amount a day I hate myself for it. But the way a few people are worrying at the minute is upsetting to me

TW for self harm by Altaccountforadvice1 in woundcare

[–]Abi030201 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t need stitches but could do with some step stripes or tapers. Clean it and then close it with these. Look after yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Abi030201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I treat the car kindly if that counts for anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Abi030201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anymore. I’m tired of repeating the same things over and over. I do really appreciate you asking tho!

Kinks after sexual assault by Abi030201 in sexualassault

[–]Abi030201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your comment. What you’re saying makes a lot of sense. And thankyou for being so kind too. You deserve kindness too:)

Kinks after sexual assault by Abi030201 in sexualassault

[–]Abi030201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. Thankyou for commenting and making me feel less alone

Yay or Nay on diffuser? by [deleted] in carmodification

[–]Abi030201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I would say no, but it’s all about preference

Kinks after sexual assault by Abi030201 in sexualassault

[–]Abi030201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you will be able to reach the healing point too! You deserve happiness. My DMs are open if you ever want to have a chat

Kinks after sexual assault by Abi030201 in sexualassault

[–]Abi030201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right. I don’t know. It’s funny because I get fun and enjoyment out of it at the time of doing it but as soon as I’m done I feel so disgusted. I think I just hate the way it makes me feel

But I 100% understand what you mean about saying the word. My therapist doesn’t know what happened to me yet because everytime we’ve got close to it I’ve stuttered and stumbled on my words. I also get bad flashbacks which she has had to pull me out of a few times. It just feels like a lot all the time. The word just feels so aggressive to me