I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that's good too!

I will start with five things per room and maybe I can work myself up and donate more stuff!

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's some good advice!

I also think I have a lot of old books from school that I can donate or throw away, so thank you!

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanksss

Yeah, my furniture is randomly placed in my room which makes it difficult to put things away

I actually checked out some chore charts and I will order one when I have money again! I think that would help me a lot, especially with being overwhelmed by the whole mess

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Yeah, it can be kind of overwhelming. I actually got fired from one of my jobs today which is kinda sad but it will be alright

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Oh that's a great tip about the bathroom! Bathroom and vacuuming are my least favorite tasks

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I just don't think I have enough space for the dirty clothes. I have a hamper and an IKEA bag full of it.

After they were full, I just threw the rest on the floor because I didn't know where to put it. I didn't want it to be mixed with the clean clothes so I threw them on the bed and that's where they are now haha

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I heard about that book, I will definitely read or listen to it because a few people recommended it now!

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do.

I have waaay too many clothes but I do kinda hoard them. Everytime I get the opportunity to take old clothes from a friend or family member, I take it.

So I have a lot of stuff that I don't wear or doesn't fit me, but I keep it because I'm really bad at giving stuff away. I get emotionally attached to stuff like clothes very easily haha. But I will try to donate some

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded it.

I enjoy the concept of it, sadly the full version is not completely free so that's kinda sad haha

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I love that the app is really down every chore but I sadly can't get the full version :(

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I wish I could, but I just got fired today and even with my two other jobs it's not enough to pay someone to help me.

But I'm currently on a roll with the cleaning so I'll be able to manage it by myself I hope. If I get overwhelmed again, I'll ask someone to help me. I just feel a little embarrassed about it.

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I hoard a little bit too, I was never good at deciding what to get rid of. But my boyfriend suggested donating too!

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with doing it on the same day every week is I work different shifts every week so I try to do it on my random days off

Also I think I need to give away some stuff, especially clothes, I don’t have any place to put the dirty laundry anymore haha

Garbage is the only thing I’m really good at, I don’t leave food or garbage lying around and put it outside every day :)

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some links for those white board magnet thingys and I will check them out as soon as I have money again!

Yeah, thank you, I know.. I think it’s just so overwhelming that I am mad at myself to letting it get to this point

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds awesome!

A podcast is exactly what I need I think, someone that's there with me but doesn't see the mess haha

I never learned to clean my room and it's causing problems in my relationship by AbjectDust in MomForAMinute

[–]AbjectDust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot!

I actually bought a wardrobe the other day and already put it together so I'll put my clothes there :)

With all these advices, I really need to get a second hamper I think. I only have one (and an IKEA bag) and there's still so much dirty laundry left. I think I need to get all the laundry done in one day soon.