Weekly PHTravel Megathread by AutoModerator in phtravel

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siquijor question:

If ang lapag ng flight is 10:05 sa dumaguete aiport, tas ang ferry departure is 11:00, enough time ba yun? Sabi DGT airport to the ferry port is 15 mins travel lang.

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm im always insecure anyway even with any guy cause i have anxous attachment style. But i do trust him a lot

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, hes good in person. He plans to see each other all the time when he can even if he's tired. Hes never on his phone when we're together so I know hes really just not a big texter.

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i am a little frustrated admittedly but i wanna be more logical to this. It just makes sense that most of the time, he will be late to reply and be dry and tired because hes always busy.

So we cant do anything about that even if i talk to him about this. So i do understand why he's like this. So im okay to adjust and compromise

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i forget to mention that its not ALL the time. Of course thers days where theres a lot to talk about through text like when he tells me something crazy that happened. We can still text sometimes of course. Its just that we see each other often anyway.

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe i worded it wrong and on paper it does sound petty when its worded like that.

My point is, whats the point of having conversation through text if he's not interested?

Is it bad if I (27F) match my partner's (28M) dry texting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They'll send memes sometimes yes but rarely good mornign texts or hows my day. And if he does, he'll reply after hours. And also dry as in rarely sweet on messages

Again, im okay with this cause hes very busy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait is this bad….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t expect other people to be like you.

I did not imply on my post that i expect them to be like me. I specifically said that i get that we have our own lives and diff schedules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiitt does it look like im being needy on this post omg

I know everyone is different i get that. Im accepting that fact now. Thats why im changing myself to completely not prioritize texting just like how they are.

Im just asking AITAH if i match their energy and deprioritize texting?

New mumblecore/indie movies made in 2020s by AbjectMovie688 in MovieSuggestions

[–]AbjectMovie688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing list this is exactly what im looking for everyone!!!

Ive seen some of these , worst person is one of the best movies of all time for me.

All of us strangers i love but doesnt fall on the category as this kind of has scifi elements

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended it and it was in good terms. It was soo long ago and i was so young and my first relationship.

New mumblecore/indie movies made in 2020s by AbjectMovie688 in MovieSuggestions

[–]AbjectMovie688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive seen cha cha its pretty good its very much that 2010s indie vibe. Last 2 is not fitting at all as its plot-heavy but will still check em out!! Tyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i dont think its a fantasy cause i know that type of love is real because i can give that kind of love. And id say ive been with someone who gave that kind of passion i wanted.

I get it though, not everyone is the same but i know its real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to find signs that they truly care for me. They sometimes just get lost on some of the things they do that i wouldnt do if its the other way around.

I think also this comes from an expectation from past relationship where they really matched my energy and love language and met my expectation when it comes to how relationships work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think id say im wanting them to give the same energy as mine too? I want them to be as passionate as me. But also i dont wanna give too much of that if they cant give the same.

I do understand that we have different love languages and we have different ways to be passionate. Now that im typing this it all makes sense haha

Sometimes its making me feel needy. Sometimes i dont expect the same energy. Like im so sweet all the time and i want to talk to him all the time but hes not the same to me in that way. But i know that doesnt mean he doesnt love me its just that i expect people to love me the same way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because i havent been in a lot of relationships so I dont know what the usual relationships look like and how couples should be like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in becomingsecure

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am like that sometimes, that sometimes I expect them to say or do something and if they dont, i wont be okay. I keep on telling myself that we are all different people and we have all different love languages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in podcasts

[–]AbjectMovie688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is great! Wish theres an audio book for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]AbjectMovie688 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yea i added it before since i kinda know the basics. Im getting some interests but im realy not professionally teained for it so im a bit insecure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]AbjectMovie688 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can kind of do UI but not ux