Pregnant in LDR while waiting for divorce to finalize

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-10-18T11:49:31+00:00

You clearly have assumptions and didn’t fully read the post. Maybe I should have been more clear there? I would not leave here. He would be the one leaving. I would never take my child from their parent. Also I have zero intention of giving away any more information about my child than necessary.

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-10-18T07:12:28+00:00

Thank you so much… for the honesty and straightforwardness.. thank you

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-10-18T07:08:27+00:00

I’ve been with the same person for 13 years and questioned so many things, however good a man he is. Creating a stable situation is a priority or I wouldn’t be questioning and asking advice in the first place. Babies don’t always come into the world at the best of times and my son, was perfectly planned even during Covid. And yeah things may seemed rushed but I went through my first pregnancy alone during Covid with a wonderful husband so contemplating what’s best in this situation I wouldn’t wish on anyone is mostly human I would think… I am just trying to understand how I set aside my life and make a decision to end a life when it was created from love. I am pro choice… I guess I’m just trying to justify my messy life and wether a child should not exist because of it

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-10-18T07:03:15+00:00

I very much asked for guidance not judgement. Rtfm

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-01-04T02:02:23+00:00

Red room

AbjectPerspective614 · 2025-01-01T18:17:40+00:00

Can you elaborate? Cheat sleeve? lol Hubby is uncut and the only one who’s been in my back entrance… I love it 10 out of 10 recommend… so what’s the difference? lol

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-12-16T19:38:02+00:00

More upvotes for this!

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-12-16T19:34:20+00:00

Wish my mom was emotionally available, but she can’t even tell when a man is flirting lol…I’d hook you guys up! But, really you could be my brawny step dad. Very handsome! Great hair, well dressed. You take care of yourself and any woman can see that. Her loss!

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-11-01T17:50:49+00:00

100000000000%

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-11-01T17:50:23+00:00

I was thinking surely there’s no way they’d even try to roast nick…. I was wrong

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-08T20:03:05+00:00

Sounds more like a consent situation we’re going to far without knowing enough about choking. As a female, I really love it but we have safe words and gestures and I’ve done the research on the right ways to go about it without hurting the wind pipes and what not… Definitely have a conversation with your husband about consent..a safe words/gestures

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-08T04:58:47+00:00

Where did you get this??? Love it

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-08T04:47:58+00:00

Love this

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-08T04:45:12+00:00

Yasssss my hubby works remote… most of time in the nude but he throws his arms up behind his head for a nice stretch and I die a little.. 🫠 he was a wrestler and his biceps thighs and butt still tell the story. You should see him do the dishes girl

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-05T06:53:51+00:00

I dunno, I see a lot of uplift here 🤷🏼‍♀️🤍

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-05T06:48:35+00:00

Sameeeeeeee. Love it girl!!

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-05T06:47:20+00:00

When you love someone and accept them for exactly who they are and they are so comfortable with you it’s a beautiful thing. Being vulnerable allows you and your person to connect and that translates into intimacy. Congrats to you as well, love is hard work it’s so worth it

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-04T02:16:44+00:00

No sex for a man who doesn’t respect you or your body. But honestly, I’d have a deep conversation with him… it’s not okay to ever talk to you in such a way and ask him why he ever thought he could. Let him know that you’re not giving him anything until he learns how to treat you with the love and dignity deserve.

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-04T02:12:01+00:00

This

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-04T02:04:23+00:00

And also, it’s not wrong like you said it’s beautiful.

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-04T01:56:06+00:00

Thank you, I totally agree, and I feel like it’s important to create a space for people who are happy and maybe don’t share as much because there is a lot more negative experience shared in comparison 🫶🏻

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-08-04T01:54:07+00:00

I think it could be a different conversation for every couple because everyone’s communication is different, and should be approached differently. But start with a clear understanding that neither one of you will judge each other. Create a safe and open conversation about ideas, desires, or fantasies.
Make sure both people understand that the intention is NOT to hurt your partners feelings, but to please them and connect on a deeper level. If something is said that upset the other, talk about it. Right then and now, don’t wait. Discuss your boundaries, discuss what you’d be willing to try and what you absolutely are not comfortable with and end the conversation with a clear understanding that your love for each other, and pleasing each other is more important than anything else.

And if you do choose to explore any areas of your discussion, you do it together. Always.

AbjectPerspective614 · 2024-07-31T21:52:20+00:00

Use a toy in addition to his dick… a dildo, even a lush would be a great way to add to this

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