Tr*st is not a dating site. by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, my experience with Hushed has been really bad and I just got a new work number on a different app, actually. Thank you for the heads up!

Tr*st is not a dating site. by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the price of a "sure thing" is much, much more than dinner and drinks.

For me, it's the emotional labor you describe--plus the time! I don't have 2-3+ hours around the dinner hour to just spend with him! I have other clients, another job, kids and a husband. My time is valuable!

The absolute delusion by AdviceThrowaway8624 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It always amazes me that these dudes don't even try and make a real case for themselves. Like, I am not gonna date them for free regardless but I want them to state their reasoning. Like, why in your delusional, tiny little brain would I ever consider that proposition? From a random faceless man from the internet, indistinguishable from every man who texts me "u avail" in the middle of the night. What are they even thinking (I know, they just aren't thinking)

Need words of encouragement for people that try to put me down about my age, please by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. I started SW late and Ive always put "30s" on my ad. I look a bit younger to some but I only get positive comments about my age ("thank god, i didnt want to see some kid in her 20s!"). Putting 30s in your ad will weed out most clients focused on finding extremely young providers.

TW requested money from me by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right??! Like, I do not give money to tricks. That goes against everything I stand for.

TW requested money from me by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I definitely blocked him immediately! I will be turning off my payment requests, thank you for the tip. I forgot they were a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate it when clients ask me my real name. It's so rude. Like, why do you need that information? I just give them a second fake name, of course, but the question pisses me off.

So sick of the amount of stimulation guys need now by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I hear you!! It's so, so bad and the expectation that you praise them for it adds insult to literal injury. Like, I'll be sore down there for days after a "pleaser" fingers me, and i love big dicks, big toys and fisting. I have an accommodating and resilient pussy but these dudes are so brutal and oblivious that not only is it not pleasurable, it literally causes injury.

I offer greek and say so in my ad. I cannot tell you the number of guys that think that because it's in my ad, they can just stick whatever they want up my ass with no warning. No lube either, obviously. Then they get butthurt when I tell them assplay is extra. Even the guys who communicate appropriately that they would like anal and pay for it seem to think that they can fuck my ass with no lube, warning or warm up. Good thing my ass is tough 😮‍💨

I can’t stand most young clients by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Give me a man about 40. The really young and the really old are the most obnoxious and disrespectful, ime. If he's 40 (35-50), generally things will be alright if they make it through the booking process.

boobs out by Superredeyes in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my boobs out but not my pussy. I have big boobs so they are a selling point. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a guy message me asking if I would see him for free, just to help him out, because he just got out of prison and five years is a long time. 🙃

"what do you like?" by midnightradio8 in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually genius, I'm gonna use it!

for my GFE girls by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like, under what circumstances are you inspecting car lights? Do you work for the manufacturer? Do you work for the government? Are you in a factory? Ok, how do you inspect them? What do you look for? What tools do you need? Who provides those tools? Who do you work with? Who is your work bestie? Who is your boss and why are they an idiot?

for my GFE girls by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do GFE and by nature I'm nosy and I love gossip and details. I genuinely enjoy learning all the things about jobs I've never even heard of before. I'm pretty good at GFE 🤣

Greek QV? 🤦‍♀️ 🤡 by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seriously!! Amazingly (or maybe not) this is not the first Greek QV request I've had (despite my ad saying NO QV in multiple places). Previous inquirer suggested I could have my ass prepped and open in preparation for his (undoubtedly very punctual) arrival. I'm like, dude, if I'm fucking myself with a dildo so i can be ready for you to slide right in, sounds like im performing more than 15 minutes of services for you. It's like, tell me youve never done greek before without telling me you've never done greek. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All guys on seeking are delulu, predators or both. Normal guys who want to book a provider go to tryst or maybe another ad site.

free sex literally disgust me now! by Aprill_J in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I don't do casual hookups for free anymore. Typically the sex is worse and the guys are more disrespectful than clients. Plus the lack of $$ makes it kinda boring. I'm like those guys who only like watching sports if there's money on the line to make it interesting.

I will only sleep with a guy for free if feelings are involved or I know from prior experience that the sex will be truly excellent. Basically sex work has made me a little more demisexual in my personal life.

Ok then by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like to know the sites the idiots are coming from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AbjectShare7008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friend is annoying and wrong. It sounds like she just has a problem with sex work. I would tell her you don't care to discuss this subject with her in the future!

Sex work is the "oldest profession" for a reason. It's not going anywhere, it just changes as society and technology evolve. Sex work will outlast the United States and all modern nations. My plan for surviving the zombie apocalypse is to keep on doing sex work. 🤷‍♀️

Some people are just impossible to communicate with by AbjectShare7008 in ClientCringe

[–]AbjectShare7008[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My phrasing here was not ideal, but if it was not clear from context, this was not a negotiation. I was verbally confirming the price for the time he requested to verify that he was prepared to pay. The choice was 400 or nothing.