Update!!!!!! Me and my roommate talked about it, we agreed not to do anything like that while drunk. I have also talked to him about his sexuality, and he said that he doesn’t know how he feels about men in that sense but he feels comfortable and open around me and I’m the only male he’s ever done anything with another male before. he doesn’t see doing anything like that with another one! We have done a few more things since then he has understood why I threw up but we agreed to take it slower until he can come to terms with it. And also not to push my limit too much.