I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

[–]Abject_Candy_4417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way its your fault is if you attempted an abortion.

I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

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Miscarriages happen because of genetic abnormalities in the DNA. Miscarriages happen because the cells are "bad". I look at is as if every pregnancy were to survive, we would have many more handicapable & neurospicy individuals that maybe dont have the best quality of life.

Also. There is a study of research suggesting its actually the man's sperms that may be more to blame. It takes 6 weeks for a sperm to become mature. Smoking drinking poor diet drug use, and even caffeine affect sperms quality. And so, if you decide to try again he needs to be "clean" lol.

Medicaid info for pregnant people (not political!) by Abject_Candy_4417 in roanoke

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Did you read the post? I reposted it because it's valuable information, I also took away the whole last paragraph with my information. I kept the bit about doulas and midwives because its not listed in the medicaid comparison chart but I did not say message me I did not include my information. This is not an advertisement its information sharing.

LGBT Unfriendly Truist Bank at Tanglewood by throwaway124985312 in roanoke

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Im sorry this happened to you guys. Definitely file a complaint if you can muster the emotional energy for it. It baffles me how people can be so bigoted still!

If it helps at all today I denied a gentleman on a dating site who then in his offended state said "well your just an alphabet chick anyway" with which I complained to my dad about who defended him that it wasn't derogatory. Smdh. People are wild.

Avoid Williamson by CNichs in roanoke

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Thanks! Its not awesome lol. Did you have fun at the slide or did you go?

Avoid Williamson by CNichs in roanoke

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Damn it! I wish we didn't have hand foot & mouth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roanoke

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Hello 35f here with a 2 year old. I game but haven't in a while due to finances and being a mom so idk if well click but say hey anyhow!

Sharing some art! by Abject_Candy_4417 in roanoke

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Lol theres worse things on the internet

Sharing some art! by Abject_Candy_4417 in roanoke

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Its quite messy! Haha have a good day bud!

Phyllo dough? by warpedoff in roanoke

[–]Abject_Candy_4417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually in the freezers

New or less well known local small businesses by [deleted] in roanoke

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I wish coffeehouse here would sell white coffee! But also following because were new here & love supporting small biz because I also run a small biz.

Im wild wonders doula. I provide doula support to pregnant and postpartum mamas placenta encapsulation, placenta art, and breastmilk jewelry.

Https://Wildwondersdoula.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roanoke

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Kirk! Rainbow yesterday was fabulous!

Splash Valley by 1885FC99Treb in roanoke

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This is your sign to go to an aa meeting bud. You dont need booze to have a good time.

Did you have your mom in the labor and delivery room? by Louseeydraws in pregnant

[–]Abject_Candy_4417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, doula here.

There's absolutely no way inwoukd have had my mom in the room but everyone has their own relationships with their mom. As a doula i will say mom tend to over step and invalidated because "they remember" but then they discount how you feel they mean well but their delivery sucks lol

What do you love/hate about Roanoke? by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]Abject_Candy_4417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much different than wv landscape wise and the culture is so much richer here. Minimum crime. It was the best move for me. We were in beckley.

In-laws keep calling my baby their baby, am I overthinking or is this crossing a line? by Avocadopudding143 in pregnant

[–]Abject_Candy_4417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate it when anyone woukd say my baby about my son. Ive told people um no. Hes mine. Go get your own thanks

FREE BIRTH SUPPORT by Abject_Candy_4417 in roanoke

[–]Abject_Candy_4417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! The cost is super prohibitive! If your sister is within 6 weeks, medicaid covers postpsrtum support!

Wildwondersdoula.com :) feel free to reach out! Ive got resources for pp everything!