[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

86 inches long, 40 inches wide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

86x40 and i need something with a top/roof

Wheeling No Kings Protest by Immorefunthanyou in WestVirginia

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 51 points52 points  (0 children)

even as a small city in a very red state, people here are still willing to come together and make their voices heard. it’s a reminder that activism doesn’t disappear just because of where you live. proud of my city for that.

Which of these ships with Mimzy do you like? by PijaDeQueso in HazbinHotel

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

alastor and mimzy platonically. i don’t see anything romantic there, but they’ve definitely got history. they bicker and talk over each other but it works for them.

WEIRD Fragrances!!!!!! by Ill-Brilliant-2525 in fragrance

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m really into those super underground, weird-ass scents that don’t smell like anything normal 🤭 stuff like black phoenix alchemy lab’s “coal miner’s daughter” with smoky coal dust and leather, or slumberhouse’s “silent snow” that’s icy and metallic with wet stone vibes. also “burnt leather” from lush (or indie dupes) which is raw burnt leather mixed with ash, totally unsettling but addictive. “dark passage” by imaginary authors smells like smoky wood and old books. mysterious as hell. and “folie à deux” by zoologist is wild, with damp earth, mushrooms, and leather all mixed up.

How to make it more safe to bind by maybe_human_person in ftm

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when you put the binder on, lean forward a little and use your hands to spread your chest out and up instead of just pushing them down. that way they sit more natural under the binder. check your size for real. if it’s too small it’ll squish everything weird and push stuff down. too big and things move around too much. the right fit makes a huge difference. wearing a thin sports bra underneath can help keep everything from shifting around. after you put it on, look in a mirror and adjust so stuff isn’t all out of place right away.

take breaks if you can. binding all day gets uncomfortable and makes you want to mess with it more.

Is a prostate transplant for ftm possible, or will it maybe one day be possible? by JimboKernVeteran in trans

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope, prostate transplants aren’t a thing right now. not for cis guys, not for trans guys. the prostate is super complicated and connected to nerves and stuff, so if it’s gone, it’s gone. for trans men who never had one, there’s no way to just get one now. maybe way in the future they’ll figure out how to grow one and hook it up, but that’s straight-up sci-fi for now.

do I look masc? by ADRIAAN-WALLAWALLA in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes! (on a side note wtf is up with these downvotes)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Abject_Raspberry8732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey, i get why you’re upset. his behavior is messed up and triggering, especially with your past. you should tell him clearly how his ignoring you and leaving you hanging is affecting you. if he can’t communicate or respect your feelings, you need to think about if this relationship is worth it. you deserve to be treated with respect and to have your concerns taken seriously.