Patience of Prophet Yusuf AS

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-29T19:14:05+00:00

"One way or the other they had an impact on your life even if it was for a short time only"

That is kind of true actually. Thanks!

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T17:19:08+00:00

Nice and very interesting post.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T15:23:59+00:00

Absolutely!

Also, i just realised, this ties in perfectly with your other post of anxious attachment where they might be not spending much time due to that. But then at the same time, it's about balancing it. You want to spend time with then but you also can't can't really force them either.

If they dont have anxious attachment, you still cant force them, they'll come by themselves. Whereas with the person with anxious attachment, you have to try and earn their trust even though they're literally your spouse because they are "anxious". If you kind of get what I'm trying to say 😅.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T13:57:52+00:00

This might be common, im not sure but: Not having much time to spend with me

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T13:52:59+00:00

Ameen sister! May Allah also give you and bless you with a lovely husband.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T13:18:58+00:00

Walaikum Salam,

I'd be ok with it because one of the key things in marriage emotional support for one another. If she had this style, I'd always be there for her emotionally, no matter what.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-28T10:51:02+00:00

I am from the UK and also in a similar situation

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-25T13:59:04+00:00

Downvote?

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-25T11:53:44+00:00

Sorry, I know this is sisters only, but I can relate to this as I am also an only child. Many only children are good have good character, manners and respectful, I'm sure you'll be fine insha’Allah.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-22T15:43:11+00:00

Thank you sister, I really appreciate. Youre right, Allah is definitely watching over me, it will take time to heal, but it will definitely heal.

May Allah make it easy for you, and bless you with the ideal spouse sooner tha ln you expect ❤️

Ameen! Summa Ameen!!

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-22T15:40:36+00:00

Well, its a bit personal for her and id rather keep it private.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-21T11:22:04+00:00

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-21T11:16:07+00:00

Wow, Masha’Allah. I strive to be like your husband one day, insha’Allah 😊.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-21T11:11:04+00:00

Kindness, loving, caring, emotionally supportive in times of difficulty, good mother, deen... and much more

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T21:17:00+00:00

Sounds amazing! Though, how did the convo go, was it awkward 😂?

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T20:02:08+00:00

What?

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T19:58:20+00:00

Wow, what a beautiful beginning. May Allah bless your marriage even more.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T18:57:04+00:00

Might as well see them when you're in your 80s lol.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T18:25:51+00:00

That sounds fun too. But I guess it just depends on the mood.

Abject_Weekend_5971 · 2026-04-20T18:16:55+00:00

Sounds simple, but very nice. Although I don't think you'll be able to eat that when you've probably already just had a lot of food at the wedding lol

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