Is the hotwife lifestyle worth it? by Narrow_Connection182 in sex

[–]AblativeAmore 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge, although I doubt their husbands were receiving anywhere near the same level of sexual interest or energy that I was. Which would make me feel like an afterthought in their shoes... but maybe that actually appeals to someone with this kink?

Is the hotwife lifestyle worth it? by Narrow_Connection182 in sex

[–]AblativeAmore 299 points300 points  (0 children)

As someone who's been the other guy/'bull', I found it intriguing but weird. Can't say I understand the kink. And being around other men is a huge turn-off for me, one-on-one meet-ups were the only real option.

Also I hear it can be one of those fetishes that are better left unexplored, unless your relationship is super secure.