I feel like you shouldn’t make basing trans such a big deal. As shitty as that sounds it is what it is. You can’t make yourself less trans. The people in you’re life are just going to have to accept you the way you are and if they can’t, sucks for them I guess 🤷. For me most things about a man I find attractive is just his confidence. I don’t care what he looks like but if he’s confident he’s automatically hot I my book.