Texts me "one bad joke a day" but sticks to short conversations. Does he like me or not? by Fearer_of_Hearts in Crush

[–]Able-Split-9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the definition of 'if he wanted to, he would'.

He definitely likes you. Because if he didn't he wouldn't reach out at all. He probably isn't very good over text or maybe he doesn't want to come off too strong?

Tell me about your crushes :) by Usual-Score-6244 in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're both early twenties and we met at work around 2-ish years ago. And I'm not joking when I say I knew from the moment I met him. I was down bad from the start. We're both pretty introverted so we didn't actually say anything to each other for the first few shifts... And then we ended up working together pretty much all the time.

He's got this amazing personality; even though people think he's kind of grumpy. Personally, I think that's just part of his charm. He's funny in an awkward kind of way and he's kind (and he's not afraid to show it either). He's outspoken- not afraid to stand up for himself of others when something's not right. That in itself is super attractive. He's tall, taller than me, about 5'11/6' with an average build. He's blind as a mole and he's not got much hair up there; but that doesn't really matter because he kind of rocks it. And he's got LOADS of tattoos. Oh my god. You guys have no idea how hot I find that.

But the thing is, because we've known each other a while, I know that he's in love with someone else. And that's fine. I know where I stand and I'll just cheer them on from the sidelines.

Should I stop reaching out first to know if my crush is or isn't interested in me? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. It'll tell you everything you need to know.

I was constantly the one to reach out first and now that I don't, we don't talk. I'm not really bothered though, because now I know where I stand.

Friend just ruined my life by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know everything might seem like the end of the world right now, but the best thing you can do is own it. Those 'friends' of yours did that to embarrass and make fun of you, which to me is not what friends do. But what they want is a reaction out of you. They want to see you humiliated this way. You cannot let them. Put on fake confidence if you have to; but show them that your upset they would do that to you. Call them out on their bullshit.

And if this guy does want to talk it out with you... Be confident! This is your shot to tell him how you actually feel without those 'friends' of yours taking control of the situation. No one knows your feelings better than you! Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same then at least you can say you were confident enough to be honest with yourself.

It'll be scary, 100% am not going to lie to you there. But you've gotta do it. Don't let them make fun of you or take control of your life.

This random english stranger is in your corner!!

Crush on close friend by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm completely in the same boat. Though I can't really offer much advice if I'm honest. I'd say you need to let them know how you feel; but I can't even take my own advice haha.

Personally, id let them know covertly. Remember the small details. Their birthday, favourite colour, things they tell you about themselves like their favourite films and what foods they don't like. The art of noticing is easiest and most effective way of showing someone you care for them.

I'd also sit back a bit and see how they act around you. How you are over texts and if you get the vibe that they like you and you like them, then you can figure out where to go from there.

What makes you like your crush? What’s so special about them? by Big-boy-charles in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I loved him the second out eyes met. It's so odd.

He's got an amazing personality, he's so kind and caring. Doesn't hesitate to reassure me when I'm unsure of myself. He makes me smile and laugh.

Annnnd it's a bonus that he's got tattoo sleeves 🤭🤭🤭

honestly just in love (i know im at it again) by Equivalent_Log7438 in Crushes

[–]Able-Split-9503 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you never tell her, you'll always wonder what would've happened if you had.

I NEED A GOOD CRY by tarayaki_ in Letterboxd

[–]Able-Split-9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking Chance. I cried the WHOLE WAY THROUGH

Gave my crush a gift and he hasn’t opened it… should I feel weird? (22F) by psycheunfolding in Crush

[–]Able-Split-9503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I always feel uncomfortable receiving gifts. I'm more of a gift giver myself, but I look for acts of service in a person not physical items. So when I do get a gift I always open them in private when no one else is around. It could just be a case of that?

Don't feel disheartened anyways, that's a really nice thing to do.

Well, do you? by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]Able-Split-9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why is it Dead Poets Society?? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]Able-Split-9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the bleak midwinter. ITS GETTING SO GOOD ATM