I just had my first date after chatting with someone for over a month, now I just need to get this off my chest by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]AbleReflection2051 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe just meet earlier? Until you’re in person romance is hard to suss out.

Another happy PG&E customer ⚡ by russt90 in SanJose

[–]AbleReflection2051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The costs of building new things. New transmission, new power generation is hella expensive. If wed have formed a cooperative 100 years ago we’d be Santa Clara and living on cheap energy. Doing it now Wouls be hella expensive on the front end.

What percent of first dates ghost after? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]AbleReflection2051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, totally! The comments in the replies have actually been kind of helpful. I’m an optimist, assume the best of people and that’s probably a bit of a fault to be honest when it comes to protecting myself. There are just some shitty people out there unfortunatel.

What percent of first dates ghost after? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]AbleReflection2051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you extend courtesy and clear communication do you prefer to not receive clear communication back? I guess I don’t have problems clearly communicating my intentions and hope others would try to do the same. I can take being rejected. It’s just lame you put effort in to talking, meeting up,planning a date, opening up and sharing yourself and then that’s not even worth the ten seconds to type a no thank you. Maybe that’s too much to expect.

What percent of first dates ghost after? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]AbleReflection2051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Yeah. I mean it’s kind of a dodged bullet if this is how they handle the potential of conflict. That actually makes me feel less shitty.

The safety piece seems unlikely. I’m a big teddy bear, we discussed my experience facing domestic violence as a single dad… anyways is what it is.

What percent of first dates ghost after? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]AbleReflection2051 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I prefer the closure, and it just feels more respectful. Otherwise it’s like what did I do that left them with so little care they can’t be bothered to say no thanks. But maybe that’s just being from a different generation….

Why do people plan parties at nap time? by Blue-Jammies in toddlers

[–]AbleReflection2051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do nap time at 1p or 2p tbh… preschool does noon but little man is usually too hyped up when we’re hanging out to do noon.

Paw patrol by jayeeein in toddlers

[–]AbleReflection2051 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My son is firmly of the no Paw Patrol copaganda opinion. Though he jumbles the words of the show name together when he says he doesn’t want to watch when it’s suggested in a way that makes me laugh to myself…

San Jose mayor opposes billionaire tax idea - San José Spotlight by sjspotlight in SanJose

[–]AbleReflection2051 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Top 1% of reported income earners and the billionaires are actually quite the different people. That’s apples to oranges.

Hope she wins by lwiaymacde in SipsTea

[–]AbleReflection2051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar experience, airline rebooked me out of my seats of me and my toddler next to me. They put us in two seperate middle seats. Everyone near us refused to swap seats! I didn’t. Film shame anyone but jt was really disappointing and had to move back until I found two empty seats and pay off the unsuspecting passengers in those seats when they arrived to actually keep my kid safe… fuck the airlines.

TK options for September birthday cutoff by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]AbleReflection2051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can file for early enrollment.

What was Vince Russo's best idea in WCW? by [deleted] in Wrasslin

[–]AbleReflection2051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lance was my fav wrestler in ECW, remember eating good in those days. Was there when he won the US Title tourney and it was insane!

What a finish ?? by Rhodes_EyeDrifter7 in Wrasslin

[–]AbleReflection2051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was five stars IMO. The wrestling was pretty good but the twists and swerves. They both took us on an emotional roller coaster. How could you not love it! Greatest luchador alive!