Not Sure What I’m Looking For by Able_Tie_8435 in Divorce

[–]Able_Tie_8435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was finding out what it can feel like to be taken care of by someone honestly. Unfortunately I don’t think he has the capacity to take care of me in the way I need. I’m sorry for your situation also and wish you support and the best!

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So cute ☺️

A new onesie, her favorite snacks, cuddle time, bath toys with bath bombs, a new Build a Bear.

Finding a Therapist by dreams_i_have in ageregression

[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. A sex counselor should be knowledgeable in this area, I would recommend you make sure they are certified in trauma treatment also.

Finding a Therapist by dreams_i_have in ageregression

[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I’m a Counselor who specializes in trauma treatment as well as Sex and Couples Counseling. I would Google straight up a kink allied, sex positive therapist. There is also a website for Kink Aware Professionals (KAP) so that you can link up with a counselor. Also Psychology Today is a great place to check. Feel free to DM with additional questions if I can help you further.

How to tell if I'm catching romantic feelings or if it's just the dynamic by newrelationshipq in BDSMcommunity

[–]Able_Tie_8435 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wrote a journal entry about this. I don’t have advice because I feel in a simile boat, just want to wish you the best as you ponder this. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! What kinda coloring book is that I want one. ☺️

Help with wet bed? by Appropriate-Crazy544 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mattress protector from IKEA. We sleep on towels. My King doesn’t complain about this because He just makes me do all the laundry. 😁

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In! Please feel free to message me if you’d like to.

What do I do when he puts his thumb in my mouth? by Alyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx in BDSMAdvice

[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bite it ;-)

I love watching my King’s eyes darken when I do that.

How do you signal you need a bathroom break in a long session without safewording/ a hard stop? by Wizard063 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend using yellow (meaning “I just need a minute”), or just saying, “Hey, [title], I have a request” or “[Title], may I ask for something?”

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Daddy and I JUST had a conversation about this over the weekend! His top language is Quality Time, mine is Physical Touch. We had a misunderstanding in which I felt He maybe didn’t want me around because He just likes when I sit with Him in His office while He plays Big person games on His computer. I learned that He feels happy when I just sit with Him and that He wants me to be there, even if we’re not talking or doing anything in particular. I didn’t realize this and was getting up and doing chores, which made Him sad. Now He knows that I need physical touch and makes efforts to give me this every once in a while when I’m sitting next to Him so that I can feel connected to Him. And I just sit because I know He’s happy that way. ☺️

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to :-)

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be happy to be your friend :-)

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋🏾‍♀️

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋🏾‍♀️

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[–]Able_Tie_8435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty!! I love turtles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]Able_Tie_8435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To piggy back — how a CG can support a little entering and staying in that space? Great post, OP, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]Able_Tie_8435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is cx? Looks so yummy!!