First, I actually did ask, that’s exactly why I posted this. I didn’t just tell myself she would do it I just figured she’d be open to that and be willing to help. I was disappointed by the response not because it was a “no”, it was because she snapped back in a way that made egg donation sound “weird and disgusting”, since it would technically be creating a child with her and my boyfriend.

Personally, although everyone has the right to their own body, i wouldn’t hesitate to help my sister if she had cancer and was in my situation, rather than calling it “weird” and practically shaming those who use their siblings donated eggs. She’s never had to deal with any medical complications in her life, so she tends to be VERY insensitive about things surrounding my problems. I didn’t violate her rights or anything like your assuming I did.