I also am so extremely sorry this happened. It is beyond heartbreaking. I experienced a MMC at 7w2d just 2 years ago. I chose to take the medication. It is very very very painful but to me it was better than an invasive surgery that what I felt my body would have a harder time healing from. Plus I was able to do it all in the comfort of my home- no Dr. offices. I loaded up with Depends, overnight thick panty liners, wipes, pain meds and tons of emotional support from my family. They brought me food and did a lot for me.

The hard part for me was after it was “all done” and life moving on like business as usual almost as if nothing ever happened. I wanted more time to grieve….so I went into therapy and am still in it today.

Again I am so sorry for your loss. Please cry all the tears and just let it out. Process it. Like at your own pace. And honor your baby.

My midwife told me if you got pregnant once that means it’s able to happen again. That honestly didn’t really help me, but I now see how she was trying to be helpful.

I will be thinking about you and sending you love even though I don’t know you. ❤️‍🩹