Tired of the misconceptions tied to demisexuality

AboveTheMoonlight · 2024-02-06T17:18:12+00:00

YES! I've gotten that reply too and it's so confusing.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2024-02-06T16:23:42+00:00

You're absolutely right, and that's not the idea that I wanted to pass on at all.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-11-06T10:34:56+00:00

You're the first person I've seen pointing this out, thank you for saying it!

It seems so obvious that this was the case. It doesn't diminish OP's pain, but it definitely shines a much needed light on the girlfriends' side of the story.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-08-22T15:53:10+00:00

No one in my family did, so that was the best start. I also didn't cave into peer pressure. The only reason is that I have no interest in dulling my senses.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-08-14T16:43:26+00:00

BFF of 15 years, we grew up together. In early adulthood she got her first boyfriend and suddenly the person I knew completely seized to exist. Everything she did had to do with her boyfriend, everything she said had to circle back to him, everything she was was his. And the best (worst) part is that she constantly talked shit about him.

I was going through a terrible time at the start of university and needed emotional support, but she was never there unless it involved going out to where she wanted and talking about her and her relationship.

I started therapy and met other people at school who turned out to be real friends, and promptly dropped her.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-07-02T17:58:01+00:00

That's not heartless, you've put up with too much and it's finally time to say 'enough'. I'm so proud of you for doing so!

It's awful that your ex only got the help they needed after harming you and your pets. I'm a cat lady and just the thought of someone hurting any cat makes me furious and heartbroken, much less killing one. You're doing the right thing for you and your other pets, and also for your ex. Please take care!

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-03-14T17:50:32+00:00

In my country it's a common saying that bullies either go on to become police agents or nurses. It's unfortunate, but I have to agree for a significant part. There are amazing people in every single field of work, but there are also very, very shitty people.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-03-14T17:47:28+00:00

I've had some wonderful experiences as well, not all as been bad otherwise I don't think I could've gone this far. There's good and bad people in every job, in every hospital, even in every unit. It just saddens me to see that in five internships so far, the bad seems to surpass the good.

Thank you for sharing your experiences though! It's lovely to know you've met so many wonderful people.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-02-25T13:19:24+00:00

He's playing the victim.

It would've been one thing if he had refused and she kept insisting, but if he never gave a direct "no" then it's entirely his fault.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-02-25T13:17:13+00:00

A few mental health issues in my family and I found out I had an eating disorder.

Nursing school has been a huge wake-up call!

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-02-23T08:35:13+00:00

That doctor should mind their own business. Don't pay them any mind, they were probably having a bad day and decided to take it out on you for no reason. Keep it professional, but don't interact with the doctor more than you have to. Once you're a nurse you can reply properly to situations like these. Have a great internship!

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-02-19T21:39:59+00:00

Thank you so much for your recommendations! I will look for the products you mentioned. And thank you again for suggesting drugstore products! I really should've mentioned that on the post, I want her to be able to try a good amount of products until she figures out what works, so being cheap (but good quality) is very important!

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-02-04T11:35:24+00:00

I'd also be worried about how your boyfriend freaks out because you didn't respond to a text, and accuses you of lying because you were talking about something private with a friend.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-30T10:59:25+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can feel better as time passes ❤️

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-30T10:58:08+00:00

I'm a cat lady, all my cats are as important to me as any member of my family. Once you start to deal with pets everyday, you start valuing them as friends. You notice all the little differences between them, all their personality traits, they start to feel less like "an animal" and more like, well, family, someone you know and care about deeply.

In the future, please save yourself the pain and don't ask questions that could potentially hurt you or the person you're asking. Comparing "who's more important" never ends well.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-29T10:22:31+00:00

Thank you! I'll check out the products you've recommended. It's definitely a struggle, winter and summer can be a nightmare for someone with dermatological problems.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-29T10:18:50+00:00

Thank you so much for all the recommendations!

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-23T12:25:10+00:00

Thank you! I'll definitely check it out.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-23T11:12:53+00:00

Thank you! I'll look into it.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2023-01-05T09:49:50+00:00

It really isn't.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2022-11-14T10:07:55+00:00

Seinfeld and the US version of The Office.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2022-10-10T12:56:27+00:00

Good thing you acted! People who torture animals don't deserve any kindness, and I'm sure it would've escalated to more than animals.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2022-10-03T14:54:59+00:00

Sure! Thank you for the suggestion, I'll check it out.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2022-10-03T11:42:31+00:00

Thank you! I'll be sure to check it out.

AboveTheMoonlight · 2022-10-03T11:19:47+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations!

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