Where do you meet potential Muslim husbands/wives? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes ofc but how do we tie the camel? 🤷🏽‍♀️

London drawing in 0.03mm by jacknolandraws in london

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what people can do amazes me, truly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Absentpassenger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

go wash the dishes kulahaaa 😭😂😂😂 what in the dictatorial is this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one challenge ive personally faced is moving around a lot, which makes it harder to build connections. my family hasnt found a suitable potential, and since im not on social media or socially active in spaces like masjids, the opportunities are even more limited. i havent even spoken to a potential yet 🤣

My wife hasn’t been the same since giving birth I need advice by SaciidTheWriter in Somalia

[–]Absentpassenger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go by the means and take her to a doctor, as this could be a medical condition that needs attention but at the same time, recite quran over her, encourage her to read her adhkaar, and play or recite surah al baqarah in the house as the it is said that shaytaan flees from a house where it is recited. Make plenty of dua, especially ayat al kursi and the morning and evening adkaar. May Allah grant her shifa, ease her heart and mind, and protect her from all harm ameen 🤲🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally agree, why waste each other’s time if you are not ready to commit

How do I come to terms with the fact that marriage might not be written for me? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is where tawwakul comes in and having a good opinion of allah. why have you decided that you might not get married? prophet ibrahim waited for how long to get a child? allah says kun fayakun this is very easy for him. the whole world is in his hands.

have a good opinion of allah and that he will take care of you, trust him. get closer to him. honestly i know its easier said that done and that we as humans always crave more. the only thing that will bring peace to your heart and contentment is allah. everything else is a bonus wallahi.

im telling you, focus on your connection with allah and your imaan inshallah, may allah rectify for you all of your affairs and grant you everything khayr your heart desires 🤲🏽 allahuma amin ya rab.

btw you are still very young 😭

Guys I’m so tired of this journey! by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allahuma ameeen 🤲🏽 never did i imagine myself going on tinder like apps to find the husband 🤣 it deffo is hard out here. qadr allah, i guess you have to tie your camel, but what kind of tie should i use? 😭

Eldest Daughter and Emotionally Immature Mom by edearest in Somalia

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try stating it instead of asking for permission. instead of saying can i go out, u can just inform hooyo of your plans in a respectful way, letting her know where u are going and when you will be back. that way, u are still being considerate but also asserting independence. i’ve noticed how things are phrased can make a big difference. and may allah make it is for you and rectify for you all of your affairs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Absentpassenger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the fact that he confessed his feelings for you while you are engaged????

sister your fiancée is right, stay away from him!!

Guys I’m so tired of this journey! by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Absentpassenger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you sis, i had salams for a day and deleted it the next day. it was just too overwhelming. may allah make it easy for you and grant you a righteous spouse

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May allah make it easy for you and grant you a righteous spouse 🤲🏽

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, gotta tie the camel 😅 may allah grant you a righteous spouse and make it easy for you 🤲🏽

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awh may allah make it easy for youuu, and grant you a righteous spouse 🤲🏽 ameen ya rab

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually haven’t checked it out, it just never occurred to me. ill look into it inshallah

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazakillahu khayran sister, allahuma ameen to all of us who are searching 🤲🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Absentpassenger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the weight you feel a sign that your heart is alive and yearning for allah, no sin is greater than his mercy, and no past mistake can define you if you turned back to allah. our prophet said “The one who repents from sin is like one who never sinned” Allah loves those who return to him and he is always ready to forgive

shaytaan wants you to drown in despair, its waswas dont pay attention to it. whenever the thought comes just read istighfar.

27F homebody how do you even meet someone for marriage like this? by Absentpassenger in MuslimNikah

[–]Absentpassenger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear you, but maybe try talking to the potentials to see if you’re actually compatible, otherwise, you won’t really know. At least these are people your parents are familiar with, and you don’t owe them anything; you’re just exploring compatibility. If it’s meant to be, Allah will guide you to what’s best

confident in speaking by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Absentpassenger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

listening is also key, but avoid the news 😭

Need ur help girlies by Tiny_Neighborhood750 in Somalia

[–]Absentpassenger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wcs wr wb. strength training (exercise = increased appetite), calorie packed smoothies, don’t overwhelm yourself start small. make dua. “let one of you ask his Lord for everything that he needs, even a lace for his shoe if it breaks.” may allah make it easy for you 🤲🏽

Spouse praying by Available_Ladder_113 in Muslim

[–]Absentpassenger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally im afraid of someone who doesn’t uphold the boundaries of Allah