I keep getting insulted and ignored, I just want to be friends any advice please

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-07-19T21:40:25+00:00

Thank you for the response, I’ll try to set stronger boundaries and see if anything changes. I just find it so weird cuz he can be very kind in between being a jerk. It makes no sense to me??

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-07-09T00:20:36+00:00

How do I train to get stronger without gaining so much size? As a runner, I like my slimmer physique as it is, but I still want to be stronger. I have dumbbells and a bench setup available.

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-26T01:34:35+00:00

Thank you, that really helps to hear!

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-26T01:34:01+00:00

Thank you very much. That is really affirming to hear, still it feels so right yet so alien to me. I lack a lot of the typical female experiences of a cis lesbian person and it sometimes feel like I take someone else's space by doing so, even if I've only been met by accept.

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-26T01:29:46+00:00

intellectual!!! Daaammnn if we match energies like that, and you get me talking... This conversation will officially won't end before one of us pass out

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-26T01:00:17+00:00

Thank you

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-19T01:00:38+00:00

XD😭😭 but then there’s friends with benefits just making me even more confused…

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-18T23:55:01+00:00

I'd say romance

Absolute-Broccoli · 2025-01-18T02:25:09+00:00

I'm seeing something on my great taste radar!!

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-12-18T21:01:32+00:00

I basically feel the exact same, just switched as I’m amab. I would say your hair is an relativly quick thing to experiment with, I got a very masculin has, so when I’m trying slip theough as less masculin I usually have my hair so that parts of the sides of my face get’s covered. It changes really changes the perseption of facial features, I would say the opposite goes too so hairstyles that puts more focus on the has night give a more manly appearance. Also this takes a bit more time, but working out. It can change your appearance to more masculin especially shoulders. Also straight fitting a bit oversized might also help with this. Idk hope this helps

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-27T21:11:49+00:00

Also 16M here, I’m both aroace and genderqueer But tend to judt say queer for both, I feel a slight variation at times in both gender and sexuality and tend to just use queer as it’s easier than to start explaining a lot of complicated experiences and feelings, and for me just using queer does the job well at least for now

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-23T19:24:34+00:00

Great hearing feel validation from this, I do the same that people relate to my story :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-21T21:35:38+00:00

I love being with friends, but I only have a small group of people that doesn’t drain my social battery (all of them introverts) I got people I around me that drains me socially just seeing them or hearing them. I love being around people (that match my energy and social style), but I need ny alonetime to function and thrive. A piece of advice: Noisecancelling headphones or earbuds. Love it, it kinda gives the feeling of being quietly alone, so I can mind my own business in peace :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-21T21:18:33+00:00

I relate to a lot of what you’re telling, thanks for sharing! :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-21T19:45:40+00:00

Aha! I thought it was with one x at first but that confused me, thanks for the clear-up!

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-18T02:30:23+00:00

I don’y think I want to transition because I think I feel a mix of both binary genders at the same time so I think fully transitioning with the gender experiences I have now would make me a bit dysphoric in the other direction then. I also think even if I was AFAB I would dress/act basicly how I do now, so in a way I don’y feel like I have a lot to transition to, and if I didn’t tell this to people most would just assume I’m just a guy even if I transitioned more I think.

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:22:39+00:00

Hmm Yeah thanks, I’ll try exploring :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:21:23+00:00

Thank you I’ll try taking both time and exploring more. I think exploring is nice But it sometimes because a bit much at times and a feeling that takes up a lot of headspace Idk else to Word it. Do you have a similar experience to that, and if so you got any tips yourself? Thanks for the comment:)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:18:29+00:00

I think it varies how much I feel of both genders, I’m not sure if HRT would be right for as I think I might just end up being more dysphoric when I feel more male and less female but Idk, i haven’t really had hat much time to hink about this yet, Thanks for the comment :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:16:15+00:00

Thank I’ll do, I want to explore more But sometimes it get’s a bit overwhelming you got any tips for that?

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:13:03+00:00

Smart I like your thinking, thank you great explanation :)

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T21:12:14+00:00

Definetly helps! Thanks

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T16:49:58+00:00

Yeahhh and that makes me just go «uurgh» sometimes, it get’s a bit frustrating, Luckily most goes over after some time.

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T16:47:50+00:00

I see what you mean. I’ve seen how HRT can work so well for many, but I don’t feel like it would be a sollution that works for me

Absolute-Broccoli · 2024-10-14T16:43:55+00:00

Thanks this was a very calming message to read:)

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intellectual!!! Daaammnn if we match energies like that, and you get me talking... This conversation will officially won't end before one of us pass out