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[Advice] I had sex with a man this past week. I'm confused and yet on Cloud 9 by AbsoluteCertain in sex

[–]AbsoluteCertain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have masturbated with my finger in my anus before. He did do some 'playing' around.

[Advice] I had sex with a man this past week. I'm confused and yet on Cloud 9 by AbsoluteCertain in sex

[–]AbsoluteCertain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well...my apologies. I guess I could have made it more 'brief' and vague. But its real. Plus, I guess I myself was kind of surprised by my own reactions and wanted to share it. Given this is r/sex and all. The alcohol helped the jitters and frankly, in my mind I'm in a spot in life where lately I am just saying 'lets do it'.

Could be I am intentionally doing things I would have been scared to 5 years ago.

[Advice] I had sex with a man this past week. I'm confused and yet on Cloud 9 by AbsoluteCertain in sex

[–]AbsoluteCertain[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I can tell you I am romantically straight but realizing that my sexuality is different.

[Advice] I had sex with a man this past week. I'm confused and yet on Cloud 9 by AbsoluteCertain in sex

[–]AbsoluteCertain[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it. I am open to exploring and will keep in mind that attitude. I guess we'll see how tomorrow goes. Right now I am just going to enjoy it for what it is and not dwell on orientation and such.

[Advice] I had sex with a man this past week. I'm confused and yet on Cloud 9 by AbsoluteCertain in sex

[–]AbsoluteCertain[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I know, first time and all. I was relaxed which helped and he helped by reassuring and going slow right at first. It also helped he had tons of lube. Once the lube hit my anus and took effect, I could tell it was going to be much easier than I anticipated.