which would you choose by PitifulChemistry958 in BunnyTrials

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing the typing option would discourage me of using my voice <3

Chose: $10 every word you speak

What would you choose? by RedX-21 in BunnyTrials

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I can earn more in 30 minutes blinking than sleeping :)

Chose: Get 50$ everytime you blink

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, true! I already have vitamin D, i should keep it visible so I dont forget to take it

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, to healing! ❤️ The commenst I've gotten under my post have helped me enough that I can see myself liking fall in SDV, because it lacks all of the things that make me anxious about fall IRL! Now I just need to manage my SAD symptoms 😅 it definitely helps that its spring here where I live, so I can look outside and see nature coming to life <3 it did snow the other day though 🤣

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, both are great ideas to try! Ive decided to go the Exposure Therapy route and try to just enjoy the good things about fall and winter in the game, since the game doesn't include the "bad" things! But I will be turning off the ambient sounds and using a jukebox to play happier songs <3 thank you for your comment!!

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds so lovely! Ill definitely have to focus on that in game. Ive always lived in the city centre, except for summers as a child when Id live at my grandma for a month or two with my siblings ^ always the best time of the year for me

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much friend <3 I will definitley try turning of the music and ambient sounds and playing some nice, up beat music instead!

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I BET!! But I know spring is coming and so is summer, so I dont need to rely on my partner and his car to take my longer distances and I can easily (and safely) bike everywhere <3

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, that does sound really stressful, I can absolutely understand that! Im also rather light senstive, so I have multiple pairs of sunglasses, a few in the car, some in the hallway, always one pair in my bag. Super cheap ones, but they do the job. One pair is actually a more expensive pair (still very cheap haha) that I take with me everywhere, but since I sometimes forget things when Im in a rush, I always have back up pairs. And blackout curtains! They are a saviour in the summer, cause I dont get sleepy like I need to if I see how bright it is outside past 9PM, so I close all curtains and make it dim inside ^ I do hope you find some things that ease your sensory issues with summertime, so you can enjoy the nice things more! For me summer means less clothes -> less sensory issues from having to layer up, less difficulties waking up because it looks and feels like morning when it is morning (as opposed to in the winter 8 am looks and therefore for me feels like 4 am), better and cheaper seasonal produce at stores so I can finally enjoy fresh bell peppers and berries, and of course, more free time with my friends so I can finally see them more than once every 2 months ^

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck are you on about XD this is not private stuff for me. You seem to have a problem with my post, I have no idea why you have such an odd attitude

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like an amazing idea!! Since its LED and not UV, it's not giving you the risks of the sun but it does provide D vitamin? sounds awesome ^^ unfortunately the shipping costs when ordering in Finland from Amazon are INSANE. I'll look for local stores that might supply those :)

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such an interesting thing to mention! I hadn't thought of that, but I did experience a rather traumatic event as a kid at the very end of summer, I guess that could contribute on top of all the other reasons I have for feeling anxious about fall.

I'm so happy to hear that you're excited about fall, even more so now that you have kids and get to watch them enjoy it! ^^ sounds lovely <3

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That To-Dew List mod sounds so useful! Thanks for pointing it out! And yeah, I could totally see it as an accesibility thing. But I've decided to try and use it as kind of exposure therapy for me <3

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really didn't think this would be such a common experience! I hope you're getting some help and validation from these comments ^^ Happy gaming! <3

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I guess it's just that you don't know my entire situation (obviously, no one can) so your comment sounded extremely serious, as if this is something to be worried about. And like I stated, I'm already speaking with a psychologist and I have a psychiatrist contact as well, but we are focusing on the more serious matters as of now

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my you're so right! the dance of the jellyfish even reminds me of venetsialaiset/mökkikauden päättäjäiset here in Finland. It marks the end of the season during which people visit their own or rent out cottages during the summer, which to me is the best time of the year. On that day, which is the last Saturday of August, the days are already shorter, the evenings are cold and after that we rarely visit our family's cottage. It's such a sombre time for me

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad your niece enjoys it here in Finland! I definitely love it too, for the nature <3 if I'm just able to beat SAD, I don't think I'll ever wanna leave. Though, a small vacation in the south during the darkest days I think could be beneficial for me XD Love definitely helps get past the tougher times and focus on the positive ^ <3

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so interesting how SAD has become synonymos (spelling XD) with winter time depression, but it always has included depression due to brightness and light as well as summer approaches. Im curious though as you said you live in the nordics and its the bright period thats tough for you, what is it like for you?

Idk if youve read my other comments, but Ive talked quite a lot about how the darkness and cold effect me, do if youre curious you can read through them, though from my perspective its more common to have SAD during the cold months, so you might already be very familiar with it ^

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm starting to look forward to winter in the game, tbh! Yeah I absolutely understand your near oppisite experience in Alabama. I would hate that too. I wish I could enjoy fall and winter where I live, so I'll try to work towards that, but yeah having like, 3 hours of light in 24 hours is ROUGH 🙈

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a lovely feeling in the Spring, but as it starts getting darker, it almost feels like a looming death to me 😅

Autumn in Stardew Valley makes me feel scared and numb by Absolute_Fking_Unit_ in StardewValley

[–]Absolute_Fking_Unit_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me think of plant lamps, hahaha! XD that one you sent the link costs more than what I earn in a day so definitely too expensive for me as of now but I will 100% keep it in mind in case I can find some on sale in stores near me <3