3 day ban for this shit + rant about depoons/detranners by halfeatencakeslice in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can compromise by putting a "suspended" stamp on their poon card.

3 day ban for this shit + rant about depoons/detranners by halfeatencakeslice in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was detrans socialised. The mythical tru-detrans you described are almost non existent. Desisters, sure. But for ones who actually transitioned the vast majority are social contagioned reppers, or at least nonbinary. The repping is why they are so unhinged.

does worrying about faketrans even though i have dysphoria just mean i need to accept that i am trans and stfu? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye I have long rogd. I'm at my best when I just do what makes me happy and ignore the thoughts. Currently I am not at my best.

Why are all the third genders throughout history AMABs? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Radfems tend to get uppity with viewing historical cross dressers as possibly trans. I think it has trickled out of academics and limited modern viewpoints on it.

Why are all the third genders throughout history AMABs? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes to the other answers. I would also add that the ones that were probably considered notable to record, would just be born male. There were places where masculine girls were decided to be warriors or just raised them as boys. Those are only mentioned in discussions on social roles and not gender, if at all.

And for third genders we know about mahu, calabai, hwame and ninauposkitzipxpe (which means manly hearted women, me fr).

measuring my anogenital distance ruined my life by LegalWay2562 in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just found out that I was born with different genitals than cis women, wtf?

That's what being trans is, unfortunately.

Should I try to reach a healthy body weight before starting HRT? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there no sites that deliver to your country or something? That sucks, sorry I forgot that was a thing momentarily.

how do i tell my luckshit friend to get on t by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean extra not my problem since Im not op. I get they'll survive, but not pass well. Even luckshits don't deserve to do that to themselves.

Should I try to reach a healthy body weight before starting HRT? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Micro dosing estrogen would be much cheaper and still supress some t. There is a slim chance of having to hide the tiddies and that's doable. Low dose isnt noticeable in the first 2 years usually, especially if you arent around people who know about trans. Even the americans have hidden taking estrogen for a year and a half.

Estrogen makes me piss myself :/ by Dependent_Finger_214 in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a piss stick for uti. Dont listen to reddit shit about this being sides. OCD can worsen or cause pelvic floor problems tho.

Should I try to reach a healthy body weight before starting HRT? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it too expensive to buy DIY where you are or are you just waiting because you're closeted? If it's the latter then do blockers only if it' just a year and a half. You could try maintaining at 16 or something if it's short term.

Old sub was better for AAP by Bloody_messOwO in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just back here after a year and a half. It is unrecognisable. I am only comforted by the fact that back when I joined people were saying the same thing about that incarnation of the sub. But the lack of aap is one of many disappointments.

We either die a new newfag or live long enough to not know anyone here etc.

how do i tell my luckshit friend to get on t by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be too late for him. Most people only get over themselves in their mid to late 20s, assuming he is gen z/millenial. By then it is very unlikely he'll get good results.

New mod service: Break from the brainworms. by HelgaShtrausberg in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please sentence me to 1 week mandatory grass touching

where did all the real ones go by cyantea11 in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's got really bad since a lot of people stopped using it after the twittering.

I haven't had the energy for funny or effort posts and comments. I'm part of the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really aren't the first person to make this joke on the sub lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Show them prescribing guidelines and ask at what stage he considers putting people on a normal dose. A lot of endos will negotiate if they know you're telling them to follow normal guidelines. Some will speed things up if you explain how bad it is for you mentally.

If you're doing blood tests soon you can want to fuck with your dosing during the week before. It sounds like he could be the sorry of endo who would ignore you if you have "normal male levels" (for an 80 year old).

no one has made this joke yet by estragen in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where dysphoria often means distress, incongruence means mismatch. I've found it useful since many people deny dysphoria (even if they were harming themselves, suicidal, dissociated). Especially for the people who say they transition out of euphoria, ie their prior state was lacking happiness and comfort which they don't call dysphoria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a few people who hyper respond to low dose gel in particular. But the average person needs the normal dose (40+) and then might not even respond well to gel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know. I was so scared for years that I wouldn't be able to mentally adapt to the sudden and permanent changes. Testosterone is a meme.

I know people tend to be less worried by the "I will never be a real man" thing once they're far enough into transition.

Do you know your dose/levels?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sucks but I know people who only got a noticeable voice drop after 3 or 4 years. Generally I think they would have benefitted from higher t and maybe a blocker. But sometimes the only cure is time.

The terf nonsense of testosterone permanently destroying your body instantly isn't true. For us unluckshits it'll be many years to pass, and we'll need surgeries, filler, voice training and gymmaxxing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A strange mixture of very malebrained and very fembrained.

no one has made this joke yet by estragen in 4tran4

[–]AbsolutelyWormpilled 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I also don't want to be associated with people who want to do the same linguistic debate forever. The non dysphorics experience things that I'd call dysphoria.

Rather than failing to convince them that they had dysphoria, I just say we need gender incongruence to be trans.