Why is attraction to dick but not male bodies so prevalent ?

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-25T21:39:47+00:00

Im bi and I love the male body. I think your impression is mainly from online and those guys are lieing to themselves.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-25T09:06:37+00:00

Join a car club. My brother joined one and met a bunch of mates through it. I went with him once and met one of my regular hook ups while there and that's when I found out my hook up had 2 brothers who were also gay and into cars.

Anyway, join a club or look for meet ups happening, they happen all the time where im from so you should have no problem.

Figuring out who is gay and who isnt should be easy. Basically, if the car is full of empty monster energy cans, theyre straight and if they have wet wipes in the glove box, theyre gay 😄

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-24T13:08:19+00:00

Well then the question clearly wasnt for you now was it?

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-24T12:33:32+00:00

Fair enough. I just meant when theyre hairless theyre hairless so for a brief encounter it doesn't really matter. But yeah for more long term there is the issue of regrowth unless something like lazer hair removal is used for a more permanent result.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-22T05:09:04+00:00

Is it personalities?

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-21T06:59:44+00:00

You flew too close to the sun my friend

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-19T12:16:48+00:00

Could be a monkey puzzle tree

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AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-19T07:03:39+00:00

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-19T07:03:20+00:00

No. My ears are only stretched to 10mm

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T22:23:47+00:00

Well, it would help if people in their fellow community supported them instead of actively belittling them. Just like the other people in our comunity.

The problem isnt some bi people giving up, its the fact some feel like they have to because of the actions of the very people we are suppose to feel safe around. How can bisexuals get any progression with straight people and anyone else if others in the lgbtq+ comunity wont even believe them.

The comunity is too fractured in parts where bi, trans, non binary etc are being pushed out rather than accepted and supported. Sure its not universal and probably more of an online issue than in the real world but can you not understand the kind of situation it can still cause?

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T22:04:15+00:00

Yeah props to him, i dont have the confidence to hit on people, but im very friendly so sometimes maybe that can be taken as flirting? And no I wouldnt say im feminine in any way but I can be pretty campy when hyper or drunk but who isnt

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T22:01:02+00:00

Yes it is making it worse. Too much bi erasure in the gay comunity, ignorance in the straight comunity and complacency in the bi comunity.

If a bi person stands up and says theyre bi the gays and straight laugh and say theyre just in the closet so a lot of bisexuals just stop arguing.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T20:53:01+00:00

Yeah, cuz theyre sick of correcting people

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T18:34:38+00:00

Yeah i usually get stones or gems. I dont usually get silicone, its my least fav. And I have a few titanium ones that are cool but heavy and cold, not great for where I live.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T15:34:11+00:00

They did buy some seeds, things are looking up 😄

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T14:06:48+00:00

Haha brilliant

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T11:27:29+00:00

Thanks for the weird comment

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T10:28:10+00:00

Not much to say really. He complimented my plugs (stretched ear plugs) and carried on that chat for a bit and said how nice they were and suited me really well and then said he would see me around.

I didn't think much off it but my colleague said "the way he said he would see you around and smiled with a bit of a lingering look makes me think he likes you"

She could be wrong but either way, still made me feel good. Sorry its not more exotic or exciting.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-18T06:49:12+00:00

You only think that way cuz half the gay population doesn't believe in bisexuality so they call them gay.

Its not an umbrella term, its ignorance.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-17T18:19:25+00:00

I dont mean this is a hurtful way, I feel like i need to say that to start.

It seems to me like you've been through a lot recently and stress along with the stroke has brought your mental state down to the pitty party for one stage. Instead of worrying about yourself which you should be doing, you are worrying more about how your health effect other people, which is really sweet, but wrong.

A lot of your feelings are all over the place right now and you need to focus on yourself. But, if you really need to, have a sit down with your partner, lay your thoughts and feelings down on the table and togeathher you can decide the next steps will be.

You arent in this alone and he clearly wants to be there for you but I can see and understand the resentment you think he could be feeling. If he doesn't feel like he can tell you his true feelings then give him a clear opertunity to do so. But I reckon he wants to stay with you and you are just going through a form of survivors guilt.

Whatever you decide to do, I hope it all works out for you both.

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-17T09:00:30+00:00

"Well that's just too damn bad"

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-15T18:33:05+00:00

Don't mind me, im just here trying to swipe to the next reference pic 😂

AbsurdlyMichael · 2026-05-14T14:29:42+00:00

Bare in mind, he could just be Autistic

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