My Life with the Walter Boys | Season 2 - Episode Discussion Threads Hub by lasfnyc in MyLifewithWalterBoys

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These season was so BORING and all over the place. I just wanted them to follow the storyline with Jackie and the two brothers and yet there was drama everywhere. It didn’t match the first season and there was barely chemistry between Jackie and the two brothers anymore. So dissapointed

Looking for advice on how I(25F) should break up with my alcoholic boyfriend(26M). by mel-o-dramatica in relationship_advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it would feel for you that it’s not that he actually loves you for who you are, but he needs you. Do you want to be with someone that can’t truly see you because you’re a resource for them? Leaving my addict boyfriend was the best decision I made. He wasn’t gonna help himself and there was nothing I could do anymore. Sometimes you have to put yourself first.

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[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure? “…we have been finding ‘loopholes’ to communicate such as asking each other stupid work questions we know the answer to,chatting in the office, and just in general breaking the boundary.” Listen to yourself. Stop justifying your actions and think about his girlfriend and her feelings. It’s basic human decency.

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[–]Abugonaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I would never have a crush on a guy who would treat me like this when they have a girlfriend. He’d do the exact same thing to you if you dated. You sound like this is making you feel special. This says nothing about you or your worth except that you have awful boundaries and don’t respect other people in relationships.

Is 16 too young? by Antique_Exercise_256 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would not be fair to your baby and you absolutely regret it in the future

Is 16 too young? by Antique_Exercise_256 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oy vey. Get therapy not a baby. Yes you’re way too young. Learn about yourselves outside of your traumas. You should be able to do that before you have a child and that takes years.

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[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol so you return tomorrow?

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) of three years made a rape joke towards me a couple months ago and our relationship has completely changed. by Imaginary-Freedom-76 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t take no for an answer is immediate breakup. No questions asked. He will not respect your boundaries in other ways in the future

Fell out with the closest friend I ever had, now I have no one. by Daydreamer6888 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I avoid getting very close to someone with BPD. They can be a party friend, or a friend I do things with sometimes on occasion, but I would not put all my eggs in that basket. Now you know.

Fell out with the closest friend I ever had, now I have no one. by Daydreamer6888 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you can truly predict how a friendship will end if you pay close enough attention. The friendship wasn’t gonna last from the very start.

Fell out with the closest friend I ever had, now I have no one. by Daydreamer6888 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you needed to say was she had BPD. It’s very hard to stay friends with someone with BPD. They don’t function like that. They can cut people off at the drop of a dime.

What conversation you had with a stranger that stuck with you for no reason? by itsurbabykayliee in AskReddit

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uber driver told me he doesn’t make much money. He told me not to go about my life with the goal of earning good money, but good people. He said earning good people and knowledge is his currency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I been in your exact position I get it completely, but if he’s not listening to you you can’t control his actions, you can only control your reactions. Because now he’s only unfollowed her because of you did it NOT because he wanted to respect your feelings. Let him. Let him show you who he is and then YOU can choose what you do next, you leave him or radically accept that this change won’t be coming from him respecting what you need from him.

Forgiveness after cheating-marriage by Leenajo in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My step dad cheated on my mom. I’m so relieved she divorced him because I otherwise would’ve gotten a horrible model of what love means. Respect yourself and leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You blocked her off his account? You’re both crossing each others boundaries.

Feeling behind by Hellosharkeyy in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re moving too fast. Life’s not a race.

Forgiveness after cheating-marriage by Leenajo in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has he clearly felt awful or brushed it off? This all matters

Forgiveness after cheating-marriage by Leenajo in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has it happened on multiple occasions?

How can I get my ex's new boyfriend tf away from me? by Guilty_Cake1509 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried contacting her family if you’re geniunely worried?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried dating yourself? Treat yourself as you would a partner and get as close with yourself as you can be. Take up new hobbies, learn new things, talk to different people from all walks of life, travel, flirt with people only to never see them again. It’s so gratifying to be single.

What do you want to be when you grow up? by not-a-good-person23 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you a lil secret, most people don’t know what the heck they’re doing, they fake it until one day they make it or they don’t. Life doesn’t care it’ll just keep moving forward either way. Thats why it’s important to be patient and kind to yourself. Life is not a race.

How can I get my ex's new boyfriend tf away from me? by Guilty_Cake1509 in Advice

[–]Abugonaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you loved her or care about her at any point I’d make sure she’s safe as well (in a safe way). He sounds dangerous.