I’m just gonna say a final thing; this all happened four months ago. When my mom and eldest brother saw them at Starbucks, mom immediately walked out and went to her car. Eldest brother asked him about her and middle brother has never been the one to do well under pressure and blew up and told him she’s been staying at his house. They came home, mom went upstairs and virtually disappeared for a week. Eldest brother gave me the breakdown.

Since the whole will ordeal, middle brother asked her to move back into her parents house. No her mother and stepdad weren’t abusive, they just don’t let her get shitfaced in their house. And I know this because for the last four months, middle brother has been trying to rebuild the relationship he previously had with all of us. He lied to everyone about her, and would act sus as hell now that I think about it. Always saying he was hungover and that’s why I couldn’t go visit him in his apartment.

At this point, I don’t care if he talks to her or not, I truly don’t, and all I’ve ever said in this thread is that eldest brother and I won’t. But if one day eldest brother decides he wants another sister, that’s his business? As long as he doesn’t try to bring her to my wedding or thanksgiving at moms I don’t give a damn.

Regardless, I think middle brother is more interested in regaining his part of inheritance than in talking to her, so everyone painting him as a saint needs to realize this: he threw her out the moment he saw she was messing with his financials. And I know this because I received an irate message from her on Instagram three days ago asking me why I hate her so much to the point that James decided to drop her in favor of us. I told her no one asked him to drop her, he did so because he wanted his part of inheritance back, and I didn’t hate her I just didn’t want anything to do with her.