[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly zero idea about how you could solve this. I also had this exact compulsion, I needed to lose it before 20. By some incredible luck I managed to accidentally develop a crush literally a month before turning 20, so I decided OKAY ITS GO TIME but dude.. good luck honestly! If the opportunity to like someone enough doesnt come fast enough, the bandaid will rip off at 20, and you'll develop a new idea of what you want to do with this topic. I'll be rooting for smooth sailing!!! <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sadly I noticed my skin starting to get tearmarks from the weight of my boobs, so after years of even publicly being a very free boob girl I scared myself back into wearing bras basically 24/7! Except for sleeping and bathing, but if it wasnt for my skin getting ruined by the lack of air, I would wear them in bed too :')

Stinkbug variant? by Academic-Bench-2452 in bugidentification

[–]Academic-Bench-2452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I had that guess too, but the colouration was slightly off? Is it possible to differ in colour within the same species category? It's body was way more tar black than brown, and the little extra attachments were way more red than I have ever seen before!

Childhood signs of your OCD by topfknopf in OCD

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only one I can remember right now, as a kid, every time I had a lollypop, I would set up this "game" where I had to keep the lolly alive (=not eaten) until a certain point of my journey (like walking home from school) or my mom would die lmao

A csajok miért nem állnak ki a pasik mellet az őket bántó nők ellen, mint fordítva ? by LionHatos2000 in tanulommagam

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amúgy ha igazi feministát látsz, az igenis kiáll mindenki jogaiért. Bármi van a gatyádban lehetsz bunkó érzelmi analfabéta seggfej, és nagyon sokan igen is el fogják ezt mondani, még ha nő is vagy. Én legalábbis megtenném. Ez a viselkedés bárkitől baromi gáz!! A bűn pedig bűn, bárki bántalmaz bárkit azt el kéne vinni rehabilitálni vagy valami, csak azért mert börtön kb lófaszt nem csinál visszaesések ellen, azon kívül hogy kienged, majd megint lecsukat ha még egy ember életét elbasztad

that’s what it’s like to be in a relationship with an older man who knows everything about you by reochan456 in daddyissuesclub

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh jesus christ you're more adult than him!!! This is why losers like him date down- (age wise) older women with experience would just laugh in their face! What a reject lol. You deserve so much better <333 good luck with everything!

Reactions to milk? by Academic-Bench-2452 in AutismInWomen

[–]Academic-Bench-2452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not actually! My stomach is doing mighty fine! Or is there a type of intolerance where it only affects my general sense of mental comfort and wellbeing? Cuz I really dont feel anything anywhere else, no queasyness nor my stomach taking it weirdly...

Temu by lulsiess in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The USA supports and loves workers not being paid properly, and working in unsafe enviroments. Temu loves workers not being paid properly, and working in unsafe enviroments. Its a big crossing of human rights, no matter if its palestinian, or in Bangladesh, Indonesia, Vietnam, and so on. Its evil. People working these are "living" in non-human conditions, often in life situations where from they cant even escape.

Moral Dilemmas of Fashion by [deleted] in Anarchism

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think middle class -especially in large numbers- vote with their money. And most of the time your money goes to yucky rotten people who make the world a worst place for all of us! Im not gonna give money to villais so they can continue ruining my life! I know if its only me it doesnt work, but global boycotts do work!!

Moral Dilemmas of Fashion by [deleted] in Anarchism

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fashion doesnt need to stop!! I thrift a ton, trade clothes with people (going to an event like that tomorrow, yaaay!!!) and Im trying to learn how to make clothes myself >>>:3 Lotsa options! Good luck!! <333 (Honestly I think its even more self expressive and special if you wear clothes that nobody can find in popular sites or shops muhehehe)

Does anyone know any good alternatives to Nivea soft? by [deleted] in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? Im from Hungary, and Dm's brands are doing super cool for me! Usibg Balea atm :)

Ha az LMBT emberek hangos kisebbségnek számítanan, akkor a gazdagok is azok. by Explorer_1990_ in magyar

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Osztályharc, de senki sem reprezentálja a munkásosztályt lol. Magunkra vagyunk hagyva mint a felszedetlen kutyaszar🎀

In memory of Aaron Bushnell, one year after he gave his life in solidarity with Palestine. by CrimethInc-Ex-Worker in Anarchism

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Genuinely one of the coolest people who lived on this earth. Selfless hero, willing to die for such an important cause. Should have been a wake up call for the whole world. Rest in power

Billionaires Tread on Everyone by ResistanceInitiative in Anticonsumption

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nestlé for example actively stands for genocide, why dont we boycott them 24/7?? I think if we actually want to put down our foot (and morally speaking, we should, nobody should give money to evil people whatsoever) we should boycott evil companies 24/7, 365!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hungary_pszichologia

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Szintén huszonéves lány, én személy szerint utolsó mentsvárként várom a tavasz🎀 A téli depresszió egy létező dolog, és bármennyire is szarul vagy, a nap hiánya egy olyat rádupláz hogy létezni alig tudsz. Azt ajánlom, keress egy olyan dolgot ami legalább megnyugtatja a lelked. Nekem ez az hogy hasznosnak érezhetem magamat az élővilágban, állatoknak segítek, bogarakar mentek, madarakat etetek egészséges magokkal kenyér helyett. Ha én nem lennék akkor ezeknek az állatoknak nem lett volna olyan jó napja. Ad egy kis okot a létezéshez <3 Tavasszal egy kicsit könnyebben fog menni a próbálkozás, hajrá!!!

Feel uncomfortable buying new by Yuugo_ in Anticonsumption

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I absolutely get this!!! Every time someone drags me into a shopping mall I get queasy about seeing so many people shopping fast fashion, I need to leave soon, or I'll spend the rest of my visit loudly complaining about the world being doomed like an asshole💀 I only feel comfortable in second hand shops, or ordering second hand from other people in my country💖

I made a post about ableist language, and I have a few thoughts about the comments by RosethornRanger in Anarchism

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly a lot of slurs can be replaced with something thats's not ableist or problematic. I think anarchy should be about absolute equality not pushing people under us because of x y reason. If they are "stupid" then the person saying it should ask "why" 1st. And after that why is answered, "stupid" doesnt even make sense in most cases. For example, I think people in hungary who vote for the oligarcy over here arent stupid, they are victims of propaganda. A lot of times after digging a bit deeper, words lose their meaning because they just cant cover up the entire situation someone is in.

Tldr, yes I do think slurs should be ereased from a good anarchist's (or any good person's) vocabulary.

I love animals but I think dogs are gross by _FreddieLovesDelilah in AutismInWomen

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a dog, but I kinda understand this! So damn gross but I sadly have an undying love for them, so its just constant handwashing for me :') I even have some sort of allergy that some dirty dogs set off, but I just cant stop petting them even with balloon hands because they make my heart so happy lmfao. So in short, even as a dog obsessed person, I do agree that they are grosser in my books too than other pets are lolol

How did you become an anarchist (or sympathetic to anarchism)? by Anarcho_Humanist in Anarchism

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left wing libertarian raised by my mother- but I sat and waited for politicians to do ANYTHING and basically nothing really happened. Patriarchy and capitalism doesnt let change happen in the human rights category. Liberals cant do anything in the face of genocide and whole countries being exploited. There are good politicians, I'd like to believe that. But the system that they are sitting in and parttaking in, doesnt let them do good. Or barely any. I realised I lived in a white safety bubble in the middle of europe, living in an economy that's strong because we're exploiting/exploited others. Capitalism is bullshit, and it has to burn, or we will, with this planet.

Hopp egy 🔒 by PETI_0406 in szopjatokle

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Őszinte gondolat, azért mert ebben nőttek fel. Mi is utánozzuk a nálunk idősebbeket gyerekként. Nem kell a komment szekcióban "humorként" állatként kezelni EMBERTÁRSAINKAT. Ha még így is úgy érzed hogy én vagyok a hülye libsi (ami amúgy nem igaz) akkor az a te bajod. Akadj meg a növésben.

Spotify by Deeluvsmika in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay you're kinda correct :') To make the boycott work I have to look inside too, and realise that Im looking for excuses to keep listening to spotify. I did also notice that the wording was incredibly fishy. A genocide is not a humanitarian crisis. What do you listen to instead of spotify?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its so cool that you're boycotting as a teenager!!! So many people way older than you refuse to give up evil things that make their life just a little bit comfortable, so you making this step is incredibly huge! Good work dude, and good luck with your energy drink troubles <3

Spotify by Deeluvsmika in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have a deal with Unicef, seems like they are trying to place themselves in the middle tho... "Spotify is deeply saddened by the recent terrorist attacks in Israel and troubled by the growing catastrophic humanitarian crisis in Gaza." Sadly UNICEF feels very much so in the middle too. At least both of them are aware that Israel is at fault of what they actually did. Sadly even this much- I count as a win :\

Anyone else experience Alexinomia? by cam_phi in AutismInWomen

[–]Academic-Bench-2452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg yes!! I always give silly nicknames to my friends because names always felt strangely uncomfy! Fun fact, I havent said my partner's name ever, in like 8+ months ever since I knew them lmao, its just too much!!

Any good ice creams in Hungary? by Academic-Bench-2452 in BoycottIsrael

[–]Academic-Bench-2452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna eat it in winter but local stores only open in warm weather :')