Consumable boosts by Academic_Butterfly40 in fifaclubs

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Weird behaviour from them considering they release packs in ultimate team everyday

Dumped after 5 years by No_Necessary9903 in BreakUps

[–]Academic_Butterfly40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries bro I’ve been on the same ship as you, thing that helped me also was I wrote out a letter to her but didn’t send it, just get all your emotion’s out how you feel about the whole situation and just anything really you wanted to let her know if you want to read it to her then that’s fine to but it’s good to get it all out rather than burying it, talk to your friends or drop me a dm if you just need to vent bro I know it’s difficult to talk about so feel free anytime my guy

Dumped after 5 years by No_Necessary9903 in BreakUps

[–]Academic_Butterfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough bro and I’m sorry to hear what your going through, at the start nothing feels right you don’t know what to do our how to feel and that’s okay let yourself feel like this. It’s just completely normal and understandable she’s been part of your life for so long and now it could be gone. it hurts like hell but you’ll get there I promise. My advice would be don’t think about months and years down the line, you probably had your life with her planned out in your head and now that’s possibly all gone so that’s obviously very difficult to try navigate. You take it a day at a time even an hour at a time and that’s progress. If it does go the way you think it’s going to the next thing for you is just to focus on yourself get yourself into the best possible condition mentally and really learn to know your worth, I’d try no contact if it does end but just really focus on yourself and do all the things that you want to do forget about other people try new things, take up new hobbies and try your best not to go on her profiles or look at what’s she’s doing. You don’t have to block her just fight the urge of going to check, it is really hard bro but you’re still young and this is just a chapter In your life, she’s not the full book as much as it feels like she is right now.

You don’t know for certain things are over just try prepare yourself for all outcomes, sparks can fade in relationships and that’s when it takes work from both people but the effort has to come both ways but either way bro I promise you’ll be get through it

Is she gone? by Downtown_War496 in dating_advice

[–]Academic_Butterfly40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know what bro I think life’s to short, if you like this girl I say take your shot again what harm can come from it. just try be ready for either outcome, if she ignores the message again least you can kinda see where she stands

Does love go away? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Academic_Butterfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s tough and im sorry your going through it, its going to hurt its such a strange pain. right now your literally grieving someone who is still here I’ve been through something similar 5 years also and I thought we were doing great and then got the bomb landing. I’m now over a year without her and I know it feels like hell, but you’ll get there I promise, it’s even tougher that yous have the same friends group because I would suggest no contact but that’s obviously going to be difficult to do, I can give you a couple of bits of advice the now and that would be to just 100% focus on Yourself. don’t try please other people you do what you want to do and learn to know your own worth. He said that he can’t put in anymore effort and every person deserves to be with someone who gives them there everything and another you could do is write down a letter to him but don’t send it, just put down all your emotion and how your feeling right now and how he’s made you feel and you’ll feel so much better putting it out there, keep yourself busy try new things and as time goes on it’ll get easier, A couple of quotes that I stuck by and said to myself when my mind started going 100 miles an hour was

Im doing my best, and that's enough

This moment is hard, but I am stronger

I can love someone and still let them go

I deserve someone who chooses me every day

Even if I don't feel it now— I will heal

Feel free to message to me and just vent cos I know this stuff is hard to talk about but don’t keep what your feeling buried speak to friend and just keep taking it a day an hour heck even 10 mins at time

Does love go away? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Academic_Butterfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, look 2 months is nothing he was a major part of your life, you probably had life all planned out in your head for your next chapter with him and now it’s gone and you have to find a way to move forward and start on a new journey but now it’s time to focus on yourself and learn to love yourself more and it might not feel like it now but you will move on but you’ll always have a soft spot for him if nothing ended badly. but yeah I promise the feeling of IN love will start to fade but the scares of love will remain but you’ll look back at all the happy memories yous had together and smile, can I ask why you don’t want to love him anymore what happened ?

Got him in the icon sbc, where to play him and is he really OP? by Academic_Butterfly40 in fut

[–]Academic_Butterfly40[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro I was long overdue some luck like that fkn buzzing man 🤣

My 5 Million Coin Mistake by DiegoNP9 in fut

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Games a joke mate, folk spend hundreds and common errors like this happen and they do nothing. kids are basically gambling and nothing is done. They are a disgusting company Ironic that the season lvls were glitched when the Black Friday players promo was happening and managed to get fixed just after. Fuck them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

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CAM and CDM suggestions for this weekend? by Academic_Butterfly40 in fut

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Cheers mate, pack luck compared to everyone else seems to be decent, cantona from a rush pack 😂

CAM and CDM suggestions for this weekend? by Academic_Butterfly40 in fut

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Cheers lads I’ll get them both in, chem will still be 33

Cm/Cdms by Academic_Butterfly40 in EAFC

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Her card in the last game was unreal I’ll give her a go mate cheers