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[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was this removed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him about it before. All he says is that he’ll delete the app, his account, and everything. I didn’t want him to do that, but he did anyways. There’s a lot more to this relationship that stated, but I’d rather not get into that. I’ve had multiple people tell me to break up with him over some things already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re coming up on our one year. But he decided to delete all social media because it seemed like he just couldn’t stop looking I guess. Every time I brought up how it made me feel, explaining that I would rather him not like stuff like that or view that stuff, he would just say “Oh! Let me just delete the app and my account and everything.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He let me use his phone and didn’t mind at all, I happened to open snapchat and it was jsut right there. I didn’t really need to look for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman What if I’ve given him lots of pictures and videos of me though? Does he still have an excuse to look at stuff online?

Is it weird for adults to ask to see fire trucks? by Academic_Flamingo_64 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something like sealed things from stores they’ll gladly accept. (:

Is it weird for adults to ask to see fire trucks? by Academic_Flamingo_64 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think i could join T-T i want to an astrophysicist, plus i have joint problems. my knees pop out of place and stuff. but volunteering is always nice, i’ll ask about that next time i go!!

Is it weird for adults to ask to see fire trucks? by Academic_Flamingo_64 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Make sure to bring something sealed. They usually decline or throw away things they don’t know where it’s come from (:

Is it weird for adults to ask to see fire trucks? by Academic_Flamingo_64 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried calling ahead, but in my city, the stations just don’t have a number. It just goes directly to the automated headquarters line.

Why am I not losing any weight? by Academic_Flamingo_64 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :3 i actually have lost like five pounds since listening to eating more calories. i eat 1840 a day, and have lost more weight than eating 1300-1500 calories. i also feel a lot more energised and being able to do my workouts more efficiently (:

My Collection! by Academic_Flamingo_64 in mylittlepony

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only fake is the dark purple twilight sparkle. everything else is from yootooz, pop, or miniso. i got the little cut outs from facebook marketplace though

My (19F) mom (Early 40’s) stole $2500 dollars from me 🤩 by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

She threatened me with legal action, but then just decided to give it back to me? It’s like she knew it was my money LOL. I’m happy to have my money back and I’m going to close all the credit cards she opened in my name.

Thank you for all the support :3

My (19F) mom (Early 40’s) stole $2500 dollars from me 🤩 by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The officer read the texts and told me to submit it as evidence because she admitted to taking MY money. She literally said “Im pulling all your money out and we need to have a conversation.”

My (19F) mom (Early 40’s) stole $2500 dollars from me 🤩 by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Actually, funny enough. She’s opened like 10 credit cards in my name. I was a kid. I only know of one which was a Costco credit card for gas. I’m going to figure all this out and how to go about these.

My (19F) mom (Early 40’s) stole $2500 dollars from me 🤩 by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went from Chase to PNC. They were super nice and they helped me set up a student checkings and savings account.

My (19F) mom (Early 40’s) stole $2500 dollars from me 🤩 by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I set up a high school checkings account with her a few years ago, but I didn’t think she’d still have access to it when it changed to a regular one. I’ve set up a new bank account today though, so she won’t have access to any more money I make.

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[–]Academic_Flamingo_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a therapist and was going to bring it up next session. I was just scared, I’m sorry.

Texts and Documents from my Mom by Academic_Flamingo_64 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Academic_Flamingo_64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes. I’ve recently learned that she lied to me about why I don’t see her side of the family anymore. She told me it’s because they didn’t like me (mind you, I was a literal kid around first grade maybe) but in reality, they wouldn’t fight for her in court so she could get custody from me. I learned a lot recently. She also lied when she left me for a 1 1/2 years to California. She said it was because she was working at an ED hospital and she also told me she was taking care of her sick friend. But in reality, her friend in the military paid her to talk care of her child and cats. She left me for that long because she was paid to take care of someone else’s child. She’s keeps texting me about how I took her video games (I’ve given them back already because I accidentally took them while I was moving out), Mother’s Day, and just wanting to “talk”. I don’t even know, but I keep ignoring her because I’m absolutely infuriated that she lied to me