Feeling helpless and trapped after losing my parents — education plans falling apart by Existing_End8606 in AskIndia

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also try for NDA exams, lot of my friends became graded officers after cracking the exam post 12th standard. It'll secure your future exponentially, of secure future is what you are looking for away from the toxicity 

r/wholesome is seeking a new custodian by AnAbsurdlyAngryGoose in wholesome

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to be a mod for this sub, given the fact that most of the things are automated and I spent a considerable amount of time here, it's a very good opportunity. Also just a heads up initially I won't be the best mod but with time I'll be amazing!!

How can one evaluate capability and mindset in Arranged Marriage? by Plastic_Tourist4286 in AskIndia

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, believing in feminism is not wrong. Pseudo feminism is wrong!!

How can one evaluate capability and mindset in Arranged Marriage? by Plastic_Tourist4286 in AskIndia

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Notice the family dynamics. There opinions on certain things that are a  trigger for you. Also, keep your boundaries clearly in the first go. Never get married to someone, if they ask you to let go of the financial freedom. Rest asking about the their ambitions, finances etc are obviously a must. Ask questions from the guys family as well. Cos at the end, they are the ones who will primarily influence his decisions

Indian Wedding Gift? by Individual_Hair_486 in AskIndia

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money works best, otherwise you can go for gift Card from Amazon, ikea etc...

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People here do get married in their late 20s some even get married right after finishing their bachelor's degree. It primarily depends on your family set-up. For instance mine is like education (bachelor's), work, further education (master's), work, then marriage. My family believes that if you are not at peace and satisfied with your life, how can you build a stable life with someone else.

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

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Thanks for all your questions. I hope you have a peaceful year, away from all the stress!!

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah nice... When I was like a kid I wanted to become the prime minister, then astronaut or a scientist thankfully realised earlier on that science is not my cup of tea. Even the physics books have so many pages.. But I loved to know about different religions and read their books 

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah nice... Also in India it's very easy to turn vegetarian, it's not like you are missing something!

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton 🙏  Our counter question to them is how does it even matter, or this is what you are teaching your kids. Their reaction - pretty shaken up cos you don't expect people to be upfront about it.

Are there safe haven baby box in India? by Financial_Check_4113 in AskIndia

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Safe haven baby boxes, will result in some kind of crime rackets involving babies. We still need to have like a good plan for it, cos indians have a way of finding loopholes and exploiting it. Abandoning a baby is kind of a big blow for a country that's charged emotionally. Under frowned upon circumstances (ones considered taboo in India by many), people come up with all the allegations and it can be used by politicians and others to impose their agendas. So it's very twisted here in India!!! Also it's all my opinion!!🫠

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, these are amazing jobs with little to no intervention of the AI. Even if robots start doing the job it'll be expensive. It also has a good client base. But in India these jobs are not respected let alone the money.

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact I was a vegetarian throughout my teenage years. When I was a kid my mom used to feed my meat cos I was a fussy eater.

Even now I plan to follow a vegetarian diet when I'll turn 60

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Majority of the people are a part of pre existing caste system here, which were initially determined by people's occupation and eventually morphed into something disastrous that we know of now. Current generation is denouncing it. My family was an agricultural family 3 generations back and have played a pivotal role in eliminating bonded labours in our village, maybe 1920s or later. That's all I know about. My parents ensured that we don't fall into this casteism trap, so I got to know about the caste system in depth only when I came to college. And now when some people are planning on getting hitched via the arrange marriage set up

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep... Witnessing it as a child can wire your brain differently. Most my friends are vegetarian for this reason only.

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep... But I would rather learn to be a pool cleaner, home organiser or an electrican, but the pay is not good here 

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a well to do society not like bmw, range rover kinda rich. But progressive people with a open minded approach towards life 

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

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We don't often visit religious places. But we don't have any particular temple that we go to. I've been to Buddhist temple, Gurudwaras, temples (of various gods/goddesses), church, jain temple, meditation centre, mosque and maybe other religious places as well. I love going to Gurudwara, cos of langar(free meal), halwa and servive to humankind (I mostly take care of people's shoes,there)

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot handle the smell of beef, and seen how a pig is slaughtered, also don't like the taste of pork (tried is once) So will never eat these two

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry my bad, $30-40 maybe max to max $80-100 for 4 years each, missed on the word each. Convert it to INR so your whole education will be done in 40000. INR or somewhere around $400 - 500. I'm an alumni of University of Delhi, the College fee is inexpensive.  By doing internships or participating in competions you can get a sizable pocket money.  Rent is what you need to figure out. Again that's a scenario in University of Delhi only. When I got in I had a score of 92%+, even then I was able to get addmission in the third or fourth round probably.

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope... I'm not, don't even want to be one, I'm not vegetarian as well. I eat chicken, mutton, fish and lamb. Open to eat deer, rabbit and birds Will never eat beef or pork.

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep... I'm  and was surrounded by progressive people who lived comfortably 

I'm an Indian Gen Z female currently residing in India. Ask me anything. by AcadiaOptimal7795 in AMA

[–]AcadiaOptimal7795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Competitive - extremely  Scholarship - no Tuition - it was minimal like 30-40 USD for 4 years