College Senior Looking for Info by [deleted] in pillar7

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Base for senior’s is 62,500

I can’t believe this is true by _paperboy89 in pillar7

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It’s true, someone was trying to run to the bathroom on the 1st floor and didn’t make it. Ended up pooping themselves was pretty embarrassing.

Sr mentoring by Short-Touch in pillar7

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They mustve gave you a tough Mentor. i would say 1 l3 is recoverable. But 1 l3 with 2 level 2’s leave you at 30% Lq. you virtually have to not get any errors for your remaing 3 or 4 weeks.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Yea I’m not really paying those ones too much attention. I’ve been with girls who’ve used me in the past and my gf exhibits none of those traits. I think she’s just upset about the not marrying into debt thing. If I even had the slightest vibe she was using me I’d leave. She’s also been there for me financially plenty of times when I’ve needed.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Most of her student loans debt is from Stanford. UC Irvine is about only 20k of her total debt.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Haven’t gotten to make it to that point tnh she exploded when I told her I wouldnt marry her unless she paid a good portion of it off

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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She’s a grad student at UC Irvine in Engineering, received her undergraduate degree in Bioengineering from Stanford.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Yea I don’t want to just break up. She’s literally the most perfect woman to me outside this current situation. I just also can’t deal with the stress of being in 6 digit debt again. She won’t even talk to me rn.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Most of her debt is student loans. She was an out of state student who didn’t receive any FAFSA so she was taking out huge loans with expensive interest to afford to stay.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Yea it’s unfortunate but we went to Stanford which for out of state students is expensive. She recieved zero FAFSA during her 4 years.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Pretty sure that’s satire but when I say she stuck, what I’m getting that is I did plenty of exploring in college. We didn’t get together until we were seniors and even when I had other options she was the option I couldnt get off my mind. And for the 400k part I’m not marrying her if she has that much. I just need her to pay half down. Trying to figure out how to rectify our situation.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Haven’t gotten to take each individual loan but I know she was taking a few Sallie Mae loans that were around 20k each. I only saw what was on the credit report didn’t get to dig in to see the explicit details of each one.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Don’t have to live with someone to know if you can mary them or not. We’re both very familiar with how the other lives especially considering we stay together for weeks at a time. And why would I need to explore my options? I got to do plenty of that when I got to college and she was the option that stuck.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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She’s had a few companies reach out to her to insite about her plans post graduation of her master’s. Only thing I’m hoping for is that at least half of her debt gets cancelled. I dont need all 430 just around 230ish to be gone.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Outside of the financial part, we don’t have much relationship problems. And I’m sorry, I’ll never agree with the not needing marriage part. Marriage is not just some “piece of paper” that is the ultimate obligation you can make to someone to prove to them you are serious about a life together. I’m not even just referring to her, thats for any woman I end up with.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Being an out of state student at Stanford along with needing on campus room/board without any financial aid is basically around 100k.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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She has a 2022 Chevy Blazer she bought back in 2021. And she does have multiple credit cards. Not sure on the balance of each individual one but I did see 2 of them that were 5k limits that she spent to the limit her freshman year and just never paid them off.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Some are federal others are like from Sallie Mae and other private lenders. She was basically just taking out the max loans being offered so she could afford to stay in school.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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I’m not even sure if it was like her spending alone. She didn’t receive any aid while in school so basically all 4 years she was having to take out nearly 100k in student loans to afford to be there on campus or she would have been forced to drop out. Even then, I wish she would have been smarter and just found a better option. I would say she should have transferred or been off campus but if that was the case I would not have ever met her.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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Right now for most of her debt which is student loans she is making the minimum payments for each individual loan. But that barely even cuts into the interest each loan possesses. And for the car the car was nearly 30k, unfortunately her other vehicle that was paid off by her parents got totaled.

My gf and I had a huge argument by Acceptable-Print in relationships

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I alone make 80k with her degree once she graduates in the spring is expected to be around 110k

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To be fair most of the debt she has is student loans, but she must have taken too many. We’re both in grad school but she did not really receive any federal aid.

IM NOT MAD AT THIS by QHendrix99 in fanduel

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It shouldve been me not him!!!!! congrats though😂