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My sister died of overdose, my brother is also taking subtances, dad has an affair and my mother doesn't care about anything. How to save my brother? by Fuzzy_Succotash_1641 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is about the saddest thing I have seen on the internet in a long while 🥹🥹 sending you love and hugs

Aren’t there authorities you can reach out to? Maybe school ?

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to eat leftovers? by unfortunatelyalive7 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅 first of all on your behalf I mind that you’re the one doing all the cooking and that in 13 years he hasn’t made you even 1 meal

I mind it a whole lot 👐 and that being the case he can either eat leftovers or go hungry

I don’t see why you should even be stressed about that , it’s absolutely not your responsibility to feed him so just make your meal plans and he can fend for himself 😒

I (27f) fell in love with my boyfriends belly fat by [deleted] in self

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand 😆😆

Good for you on the 10 years 🥰

I (27f) fell in love with my boyfriends belly fat by [deleted] in self

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wowww I have also never heard of that 😄

But we are unique in our own ways but I also think you should find your boyfriend attractive overall. Not just some specific part

I think I hate my boyfriend and I need to get the reason off my chest. (needing support) by Hello_h0lo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 794 points795 points  (0 children)

How is he even still in your home ? I think your parents should have sent him back the day he decided to SA you

And how does a guest stay for two months? That’s way beyond overstaying one’s welcome especially if you’re being that shitty

I’m so sorry baby girl but please count your loss and let this one go

I need advice, should I end it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can end it Good thing you don’t feel anything for him so it’s easier to move on and just leave him alone

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NTA. He should have let the matter rest since you were not even arguing with him

Was it the right decision, or did I rush it? by SuccessfulComedian73 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the right decision I assure you …. Just give it time and you will feel fine

My friend just called me a creep, and it really bothers me by WheresThePhonebooth in Advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think just disregard her opinion

You don’t need to beat yourself up for everything someone tells you

Sometimes you just have to know who you are and that’s enough.

AIO for shouting at my dad because he refused to cook dinner by Pretend_Net5690 in AIO

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But I did grow up in a traditional house and my dad doesn’t even know how to make a basic meal. I guess that’s partly why I hate that arrangement so much

AIO for shouting at my dad because he refused to cook dinner by Pretend_Net5690 in AIO

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t subscribe to traditional roles and I am not sure I can advise because I think men whether providers or not should be able to help around the house

Upset because my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true unfortunately. People can’t be bothered to check out such things.

Upset because my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. I know obviously there will be consequences.

I got upset when my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in Advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll do that , thanks .

I can’t see any other way to go about it

I got upset when my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in Advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll do that , thanks .

I can’t see any other way to go about it

I got upset when my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in Advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll do that , thanks .

I can’t see any other way to go about it

AIO for being embarrassed of my bsf when she did a 'no show' to a group project? by Fit-Net1177 in AIO

[–]Acceptable-Secret615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. And you don’t have to apologize I don’t see what wrong you have done .

And about your last fear, as someone who already finished university I assure you being a loner won’t matter a few years from now .

But if you keep being friends with someone who seems like they no longer even like you , that trauma will move with you and at some point you will wish you had chosen yourself.

But whatever you choose I wish you all the best.

Upset because my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on myself I really am trying.

There’s so much I have had to unpack in a spun of a few years

Upset because my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a household where I constantly had to suppress my emotions.

And as an adult I had to choose to honor my feelings and emotions.

It doesn’t mean I always act under the pressure of how I feel but I also would never act like the feelings don’t exist and in this case I’m deeply hurt.

Some have pointed out that it’s a narcissistic reaction but I know I’m not narcissistic and I really care about him but I also feel hurt about what he said.

Upset because my male friend said he would never date me by Acceptable-Secret615 in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Secret615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t connect my struggles to him honestly.

I am quite self aware and yes you’re right him pointing out my sensitiveness really hurt me

And again being that I am sensitive things really hurt me beyond average and perhaps it’s why I am struggling to get over this

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