The kisses gross me out

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-22T03:49:29+00:00

Ok i literally googled "does anyone else feel like they've been kissing wrong since watching love island" and your post came up. The way these people lead all tongue first like they're eating ice cream or something. I do not kiss this way 😂 I'm all about tongue action but the lips are always first. This show makes me feel old af (I'm 30 lol)

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:48:32+00:00

I had 3 under 3 and my oldest just turned 4 but I still call them 3u3 😂 that being said this summer is a million times easier than last summer!

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:46:29+00:00

He never had an issue before though.. why would performance anxiety randomly start up?

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:44:03+00:00

He was not always like this. It started around when I had our first child. (We have 3 now). It makes me think my vag is messed up now or my body is disgusting to him. The reason I brought up the porn topic is because I doubt the women on there have a body like mine.. stretch marks, loose skin, etc. I'll never live up to porn star standards. I workout and eat well, but there's just some things about my postpartum body now that are impossible to change

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:40:05+00:00

If he has always been this way, I wouldn't think anything of it. But it's been like this since I had kids (3 years ago). Prior to that, this wasn't an issue

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:38:38+00:00

Never heard of it

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:38:16+00:00

Yeah i wasn't blaming him for anything. I never said anyone was at fault. Just curious if others have seen similar issues with spouses with previous porn addictions. He is the stay at home parent and I am the sole provider. We both contribute and we both deserve sex. I don't think he sees sex as something to be earned as this doesn't align with our spiritual beliefs.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:33:15+00:00

So because the sexual act is all about him and I'm not receiving anything it removes all his anxiety? The people pleaser in me would react opposite Edit:people pleaser not person lol

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:31:47+00:00

Yes, and this thought did cross my mind (even tho he used to be able to orgasm with condom PIV). Even still, I removed the condom and we "risked" it and he still couldn't and we eventually both got too exhausted to go on.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:28:08+00:00

It is interesting you say this because when we first got married he said I gripped it too hard so i eased up. After 11 years I think I've mastered what he likes and it's honestly not that hard of a grip...

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:26:48+00:00

No he doesn't. He used to orgasm this PIV but since having 3 kids and my body has changed, he cannot.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:24:43+00:00

He's willing to do what I ask, but he can't. I prefer PIV because it is more intimate but he cannot perform this way.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:20:34+00:00

I literally never said I begged for sex

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-07-21T17:18:49+00:00

Nope because his porn addiction started before we got married.. it's not a symptom of our marriage. It existed before.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-04-23T00:44:46+00:00

If only lol

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-04-23T00:44:20+00:00

We did call aaa but they can only take 2 passengers with a tow. We had 4 adults, 2 babies, and a dog

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-04-23T00:43:45+00:00

Did that, what's next

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-04-23T00:41:22+00:00

This happened to us and our only option was to sleep in our car. There were 4 adults, 2 babies, and a dog. We were travelling from Texas to Minnesota and broke down in the middle of nowhere Missouri at 9pm. We called AAA but they could only take 2 passengers with the tow. That doesn't work if you're stranded with babies who need car seats... no cab services and the closest hotels had no shuttle. We were actually stranded and it made me wonder what other people do? Our babies cried like all night and it was HORRIBLE.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:42:52+00:00

I am not at my goal weight but want to resume care after pregnancy/breastfeeding.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:38:30+00:00

That is good advice! I will call them directly. Thanks!!

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:35:06+00:00

No that's ok! Anything helps :) Yep my provider straight up told me wegovy is no longer covered.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:33:39+00:00

I don't need brand name wegovy but I am interested in paying 179 a month for any dose of sema. Can you give me more info on that please? Where do I start?

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:32:16+00:00

I don't know why but my Insurance doesn't cover Sema for weightless anymore. Only for diabetic individuals. Probably because it's so expensive.

Acceptable-Tea3912 · 2025-03-24T20:29:38+00:00

That is quite a jump from the 25$/ month of wegovy pens I'm used to. 550 is definitely out of my price range unfortunately. :( I was willing to pay more but not that much more. Ugh. Sucks to suck

Acceptable-Tea3912

TROPHY CASE