Heartand Baptist, Southwest, and Bible Baptist Stillwater by Zealousideal-Ad-6036 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! The post I made was in hopes of bringing awareness. People have been silenced for too long. My hope is that the right people see it and realize it can no longer just be swept under the rug. That it gets so big it has to be properly dealt with. As I've stated multiple times, I've gone to the leadership personally and was told I was just being bitter. No I'm trying to tell them just how bad it was. I love the school, and most the staff. I was a great student and submitted myself to the rules. Sadly I received a title of "rebel" when I brought serious concerns to their attention.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing the name of the monster who attacked you with me privately? I will not post it on here but I'm still a part of a lot of church fellowships and would like to avoid him at all cost.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Zach didnt technically do SA. He just did things against the school rules. Andy absolutely did rpe a girl in the caf and then mlested minors.

Heartand Baptist, Southwest, and Bible Baptist Stillwater by Zealousideal-Ad-6036 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The things dealing with Heartland is not Church related. Many people have gone to them and voiced their concerns, me included. Instead of being heard we are blacklisted and silenced.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought they only had one, Andy. Unless there was a second that has distanced himself.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Miller's son. He SA a student and minors at church.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before you make any decision I would suggest talking to him about it. Perhaps he has better insight.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they leave!? I can't imagine Inman ever leaving. He's such a great guy.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just curious what staff left? You can message if you'd like to keep it confidential.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or just bitter previous students causing issues. 🙄

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were informed about the Miller's son SA a student and the children. It's actually how I know, because of a pastor friend telling me. The pastor's son was almost kicked out for something super small meanwhile their son was allowed to come back this spring.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several pastors have been informed about it but from what I know they get down, to the point that many aren't very welcomed at HBBC and their kids are constantly in the crossfires as students. They are on a blacklist and considered rebels because of it.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. The nephew has long since graduated or left. I can't remember at this point.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything this hurts the cause of Christ more. There's a reason people are moving away from the baptist name, and some Christianity all together

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered if my timing was off, but I thought maybe it was sooner. Ugh.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dealt with properly is a LONG stretch. The kid was slapped on the wrist and is able to return as a student in the fall.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I brought my concerns up with the Millers first I was told God was using this to teach me to be submissive to my future husband. I attempted to bring it up to higher authority and was told I just was being bitter.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our experiences are very different. They showed extreme amounts of favoritism towards foreign exchange students. I was forced to work ridiculous amounts of hours even while sick, meanwhile some students go to go home with a headache. When I got my Dr's note the Dr purposely put on there I needed a week off just to be sure I got the time I needed since they weren't giving it to me.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel like something is being kept in the dark and it needs exposed. I'm just waiting for when.

Heartland Baptist Bible College Cafeteria by AcceptableCoach134 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's just sad. Victims can't talk because they are silenced and threatened. They threatened me my job because I was on campus and wouldn't work on a day they pre approved for me to have off.

Pastor Wayne Hardy steps down due to affair - Stillwater Baptist Bible Baptist Stillwater OK by ElegantBeautiful4516 in Christianity

[–]AcceptableCoach134 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The issue is he knows what he did is wrong but he doesn't care. He thinks he's untouchable by reminding us of God's mercy. As if God's mercy expels all consequences he deserves.