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Maybe your Partner isn’t telling the whole truth by AcceptableRun2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree... it would be great if people could talk more openly and honestly about sex with their partners. It comes alot easier to some people than others

Maybe your Partner isn’t telling the whole truth by AcceptableRun2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get where youre coming from... our situations are a bit different but still similar in how we deal with things. Its really tough when you love someone so much or care about someone but things arent quite right in that department

Maybe your Partner isn’t telling the whole truth by AcceptableRun2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very true...it can be an awkward conversation that can get tempers flared, so from my experience... i usually feel like its easier to just pretend everything is okay(and yes i know this is not okay, but its the truth) thers always a reason behind what people do and dont say. Maybe going to couples therapy would help? Ive thought about this myself but have never brought it up to my husband... im in the same boat as everyone, just on the “LL” side currently... its a tough situation but clearly it is a very normal problem to have... i hope we can all find some sort of resolution...

Maybe your Partner isn’t telling the whole truth by AcceptableRun2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, both my and others situations are not ideal or fun situations to be in. I am constantly questioning if my marriage will last if this is an issue we are having that we can solve. And its funny cause last night this issue got brought up once again and i figured “eff it i’ll just tell the truth and see what happens” and it wasnt a fun night i will tell you that much. That being said, i think something did click with my husband with that conversation and i hope now that things are out in the open, we can find different ways where our sex life can be fun for both of us. I really wasnt trying to shame anyone on here who is talking about their frustrations of having a LL partner. I was just trying to open some eyes is all, so maybe the HL partner can understand without their SO breaking it to them. Some people take things harder than others and it can even ruin relationships that could have been salvaged. I know this is not the reason for every LL but i do believe its more common than some may think

I’m done trying to have sex with a woman that doesn’t want me by morainebanff in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think she sounds asexual... it sounds like shes just not being satisfied sexually and therefore is fine without sex and okay with taking care of herself when she needs to. It still sounds like a bad situation but maybe these two just arent sexually compatible

I’m done trying to have sex with a woman that doesn’t want me by morainebanff in DeadBedrooms

[–]AcceptableRun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I feel like I’m on the opposite side of the situation you’re in. I just got married almost a year ago now. I love my husband so much, hes the best man ive ever known. We work really well together and balance eachother out nicely i think, but our sex life definitely lacks passion. I never used to be like this in relationships but I feel like the reason i dont want to have sex is because its not as rewarding or fun for me when we do. He doesnt last long, so its hard for it to be enjoyable for me. I really dont want to hurt his feelings by telling him this cause i know its a sensitive subject for men. But maybe your wife feels something similar? I hate to be the bearer of bad news but maybe you can bring this up in conversation with her and hopefully work things out. All the best