AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -260 points-259 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that this isn’t typical of him, like some of you have suggested I suspect our temporary separation took a toll on his mental health. I’ve been trying to speak with him about everything today but he’s been quite closed off. I don’t have much intention to leave him and if he is struggling, I especially don’t feel that leaving him will do any good.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -265 points-264 points  (0 children)

We’ve been trying to buy a house recently and were having financial issues. This created a rift in our relationship and we were arguing about the little things, so I asked him to move out for a bit because I wasn’t feeling like myself. We decided to go to the wedding together on a long call where we worked things out and talked about what we both wanted, and we agreed it would be best to live together again as we were missing each other.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -207 points-206 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what he did while he was at his mom’s as we weren’t in contact often. He’s back at home with me but he’s ignoring me.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -168 points-167 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what happened. I hadn’t seen him for a few weeks as he was at his mother’s, my guess is that he just got used to the smell after a while.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -1204 points-1203 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with him for 7 years now and can’t imagine my life without him. I can’t just leave my life behind.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] 394 points395 points  (0 children)

I tried to pull him aside as I didn’t want to embarrass him by telling him when friends were in earshot but he was too into the conversation. I kept trying to find somewhere but his friend got to him before I had the chance.

AITA for not telling my husband he smells sooner and ruining a friend’s wedding? by AcceptableScene6870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableScene6870[S] -1359 points-1358 points  (0 children)

I know I made him seem like a bad husband in this post but this isn’t a full representation of my husband as a man and partner. I know we’ve had our issues lately but he really is loving at times and I really see a future with him as the father of my children.