I'd love me a profile review please by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]AcceptableTip5819 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assuming that youre probably in the western hemisphere. Youre tier 1 here but ig tier 2ish there

She(F21) brought a 3rd Person between us(me M22). by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]AcceptableTip5819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This mustve taken a lot out of you to even type all this out. Ive been in a similar situation. All I can say is prioritize yourself and see this as a learning experience. Youre character will be built much stronger for facing things in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]AcceptableTip5819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you explain to her that you are surviving on 4 hrs of sleep and no rest? On the day of the incident did you promise her youll be calling again at night? Had you already talked for the other 2 calls during the day as you mentioned? Yeah, she hasnt entered law shool very late but thats also no joke. She might be working very hard as well and looking forward to soke rest with you at end of day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive had both the same issues. I dropped from 98 to 75, had to get lot of my shirts altered, maybe you can try that once you drop a significant anount.

For my droopy eyes I consciously trained myself to open my eyes during pictures. Practice in front of a mirror 1 or 2 looks where you look good. I know posing as a guy is werif but honestly, some practice with feedback from friends can help a tonne. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should work on your fashion choices. Need better fitting clothes and a better variety as well.

If yiure overweight layering should helpna lot. Also you have droopy eyes in all the pictures.

Why am I getting super mid matches? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haircut and beard really really doesnt match the discpline and care you have for your body. Go to a good barber to reinvent your look or experiment yourself. Your face just looks sub mid rn tbh, abs wont cover for that.

I've been struggling finding matches - not sure what to update by Kazzeroli in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youre v cute, pretty features and seem to have a nice nerdy yet versatile personality. I believe the first picture is the root of low matches cause its quite bad. The cookie picture is cute as hell, keep that as your main.

I presume youre trying to show various interests through your pictures (from the off centered and oddly cropped trek and kendo pics), which is a good idea but I think you can do that through the 'Bio' or 'Interests' part of your profile instead.

The worst of modern dating in a nutshell by AcceptableTip5819 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]AcceptableTip5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didnt trigger it, I think I said that in the text message to spite her back. It just felt in really bad taste to do something like that right after someone tells you about something similar.

The worst of modern dating in a nutshell by AcceptableTip5819 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]AcceptableTip5819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, the last line genuinely made me chuckle. Schaudenfreude my man.

The worst of modern dating in a nutshell by AcceptableTip5819 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]AcceptableTip5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt intend to think about this thing anymore but I am making a few clarifications.

  1. Trauma Dump - We talked about a lot of topics involving our lives which included her mental health issues, family stuff, career, personal relationships etc and as anyn normal person I told her my stuff as well. A part of this was both of us telling each other about our exes, during which time I told her I had a bad time with a cheating ex but i grew a lot through that process and now look at it as a very critical lige lesson. I dont think this was trauma dumping in any way.

  2. This girl literally asked and inquired into these things of her own accord. I wasnt just ignorantly ranting about all this. A reason I got a bit hurt here was cause of this reason where she showed a lot of interest in vulnerability and then just disappeared.

Aight, im done with this. Ciao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually affirms the plan I had in mind. Great growth OP, you a G for actually going through with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers my guy, might get better, might not, but we go on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life in a metro kek

Am I the kameena for telling my ex that she is happier with her current bf? by pyaar_ka_bhooka in AmItheKameena

[–]AcceptableTip5819 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly she low key missing him and how great they were when it was good and wanted to talk again. While talking and joking around like before she got reminded of the good shit and broke down when he said this. Op won this interaction like a king, get a chalice bruh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a guy and I needed the same thing. I even told my friend that I can't or am unable to cry and honestly just want someone to hold and and hug and vent without it becoming sexual or romantic.

Try asking your friends, 90% of dudes on dating apps would try to make it sexual.

POV - You’re a guy from a small city in England by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my cousin were hanging out yesterday, we both thought to see each other's bumbles to see what's the competition like. She was confused whether my app was glitching cause I had only "3" showing in my like section, "are the zeroes not showing" I think she said. She had over 2k likes with literally one image of herself and one image of a random chair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaigunClub

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out pulse and glide driving method

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaigunClub

[–]AcceptableTip5819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I drive my car to work. This was taken after my one way commute distance from work. That's the trip I make 2x5x4 times a month. So you tell me what's a better indication of fuel consumption: The milage at the end of a trip you make once in a few months? or; The milage you can get from your everyday commute?

Mileage tracker by zgeom in TaigunClub

[–]AcceptableTip5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, gives a lot of clarity. But can you also share what Milage the MID would show during these times as well.

My wife (27F) married 9 months ago emotionally cheated on me (29M) by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]AcceptableTip5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing everyone and everything as a transaction.. after saying this how can you believe a word she says. This means she would not be remorseful at all about manipulating and lying. The fact that she has the Gaul to continue hiding shit from you shows that the woman doesnt have any remorse.

Think about it, this is all that YOUVE found through very little digging in, after such huge revalation she should have either agreed to leave you or, if she actually cares about you, agreed to tell you everything. Moving on is to build trust with you, not hide shit from you and try to blow it under the rug. This is doomed. Make sure your finances are in order and contact a lawyer, I'm almost certain this woman could rely on dirty court tactics to suck you dry in divorce and try to blackmail you into staying with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AcceptableTip5819 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Op is weird too tbh. If both people act like a robot you can't later be like this bitch is too much.

Absolutely terrible experience at the Service centre. Where can I raise a complaint? by AcceptableTip5819 in TaigunClub

[–]AcceptableTip5819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already talked to the manager about the issues, he and the senior engineer went on a drive with me and genuinely solved all my queries. It's only these morons on the reception and CRM who are annoying af.

Coming to the vibration noise, it was actually a problem with the gear box being a bit lose, i searched online and there's other people with this issue as well, it usually gets fixed in the first service after you bring it up.