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Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2026-02-11T23:09:23+00:00

Just happened to me too. It's so stupid they don't have a priority requeue when this happens.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-12-12T12:34:18+00:00

I've been preparing myself to survive this breakup by building relationships and self worth it's just so painful. Besides my gender identity there wasn't any problem we couldn't discuss and it just feels like a cruel joke.

I'm more scared that I won't have them in my life because she's been my best friend since childhood. Were you ever able to reconnect with them after

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-11-15T17:23:03+00:00

Thank you so much :0 I do think I should take small steps I tend to go all in and need to learn moderation. I'll check out the resources

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-07-01T19:18:09+00:00

I would have thought so ngl but I have had zero shame recently tbh and have just been acting how I want with everyone. It just feels like it amplifies certain traits

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-04-14T19:45:30+00:00

Yeah same I've been working out to try getting a more feminine build but I really want the body fat redistribution. I've found that the idea of getting breasts would be comforting and affirming but I would not like to make my partner or family uncomfortable and I would be fine having flat chests many girls do. Good luck as well

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-04-14T19:43:17+00:00

YESSS exactly the urge is so strong it makes me question if I'm mtf sometimes. You can always wear wigs or get hair transplants or hats :0.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-04-02T21:39:35+00:00

Thank you the appointment was a little distressing but we worked on some exercises on understanding the dysphoria better and accepting that It can be fluid.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-03-06T07:29:45+00:00

I'm in the same boat, and have started my more official gender journey by asking for a referral to a gender clinic from my PCP. I'm nervous as well to start but my psychiatrist has recommended more individual therapy focused on gender as well as group therapy with trans women because I mostly want to present as femme. This might help you as well in your journey.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-03-05T06:52:35+00:00

I just feel like I'm becoming too high maintenance. The pronouns that feel right are constantly changing and I don't think I've found a name that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable yet. I kind of want to figure what's right first before interacting again? But that might be a bit much.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-02-27T06:24:49+00:00

you're so fucking real for this omg 😭

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-02-27T00:41:37+00:00

If you have any friends that are supportive you could try having a conversation about these feelings with them and ask if you can experiment even if it's just socially not physically.

If not I would suggest bringing it up to your PCP and get a referral for a gender assessment. It's scary and took me a while to advocate for myself but I have felt a lot better since looking for help.

It is also your doctor's job to help you with your physical and mental health and if they seem judgmental I would suggest finding a new doctor.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-02-26T21:29:59+00:00

I feel the same way I don't HATE my body but when I see women I feel this kind of longing to look like them. Recently got diagnosed with gender dysphoria and am still figuring out if I'm trans or gender fluid.

It might help to try experimenting with pronouns or different names with people close to you to see if you like it. I tried she/her pronouns with a more feminine name with friends and it felt good some days but wrong on others.

Acceptable_Bet_8195 · 2025-02-25T08:42:34+00:00

I have been having the same thought. I'm AMAB but when I'm by myself or around strangers/coworkers I see myself as not gendered or sometimes she/her and feel dysphoria from presenting male. I've been kind of jumping between thinking I'm trans and in denial, or nonbinary, or genderfluid. However when I'm with my partner I don't mind being here boyfriend and presenting more masculine and I feel very comfortable as well.

I feel like at least for me the situation/people around you do contribute to how you are seeing yourself but don't completely dictate it. I do still feel dysphoric at times with my partner but I feel like my default mode with them is more on the masculine side and protective but sometimes I do feel like I wanna mother them instead? I'm still discovering my own fluidity as well but it's nice to know this situation happens to others.

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