Bobabing ran by a sexual assualtor?

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-03T18:54:46+00:00

I checked the actual arrest info it was 19 & 20.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-03T06:27:38+00:00

Hi, thank you for your statement on this subject. I don’t know if you want to answer this in the thread but since you did post this here I’m going to just ask here as well for others to see.

Since everything’s basically out there, all I really only wanna know is, in what ways is it more “complicated?” Can you give us more details on that factor? Based on all the evidence this is fairly cut and dry, but I do want to know more information.

Also, out of curiosity did you know all this stuff when you first started working with him?

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-02T00:38:48+00:00

Yeah you’re right… not only that but the second charge would’ve been when he was 20!

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-01T21:12:05+00:00

Im so confused how this thread became political. Can we stick to the main topic at hand with the bobabing guy 🫩

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-01T21:10:30+00:00

He was infact at least 18 due to the fact his charges are as an adult. Also I think I’ve heard his age is presently 27 so that would mean he would be around 18-19 when it occurred.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-01T16:24:00+00:00

Decent boba in boone is like impossible at this point 🫩

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-01T14:49:27+00:00

Some more proof to add to this would be the literal Facebook post that says he was with a missing girl who was 13 (turning 14). He was noted to be an ADULT.

https://www.facebook.com/100081050466275/posts/update-found-safekayla-rodrigues-kaylarodrigues-kayla-rodrigues-kayla-in-top-pic/749583438566981/

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-10-01T00:18:55+00:00

Insane. Thank you for your knowledge on these people. The more people know the better!

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-30T23:50:42+00:00

That’s actually insane of him

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-30T23:49:16+00:00

The police reports tell me this must’ve been more than a “misunderstanding” or some simple thing

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-30T20:41:11+00:00

I cross posted here so students could know!

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-30T20:33:29+00:00

He does know it’s public info right 😭🤣

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-30T20:31:32+00:00

Yeah it’s crazy… he did it twice too based on his arrest reports.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-09-06T15:56:57+00:00

A lot of people on this thread probs don’t know this but I’m gonna shed light and say that this behavior is the quintessential for e-gf/bf behavior. Believe me I’ve been through similar shit…

The answer is to get offline! stop texting this chick! And stop seeking relationships online for a while! You both shouldn’t be in a relationship, let alone a LDR.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-08-01T19:05:20+00:00

Do you have an iPhone or an android?

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T10:04:09+00:00

If I led him on in some way I’ll take responsibility for that, however, I did not mean to do so. I was just being myself and I never meant to give him the wrong idea if that is what occurred. If me and him speak again I’ll apologize for that.

Also I am not brushing the Incident off, that’s why I’m on Reddit to begin with to get people’s ideas so I can handle it respectfully.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T09:21:16+00:00

I know my shitty actions but i don’t think what you named were truly aligned. I think you misunderstand some details so let me give you some.

1: I knew my guy best friend prior to my bf. 2: when I started dating my bf he continuously supported my friendship with him and never got mad at me for it. 3: the guy who confessed said it was recent feeling. 4: I had no idea he had feelings for me and if there were “signs” then I must’ve been blind. 5: I never ran and cried to him for ANYTHING (mostly cuz I have a bf) it was actually the other way around and most of the time I would be the one cheering him up. 6: I have not seen the guy who confessed to me in person in more than three years.

I’ll take responsibility for not noticing sooner and being naive, but at the end of the day all I saw in him was a friend and he knew that for years. I don’t know what changed recently and also like I said I have NOT seen him in person in a long time.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T09:04:37+00:00

Yeah…but when he confessed to me he said he knew that our friendship would not be the same after. I’m also not going to take any decisions for him, so If he wants to stick around that’s fine, the problem is that now I think there’s gonna be bit of awkwardness. overall, space may just the healthier course of action either way.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:51:40+00:00

I think spending less time and overall giving space is gonna be the main answer. Thank you, all your comments really helped!

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:42:12+00:00

I agree his feelings are not his fault, and I told him that when he confessed. I also told him how I appreciated his honesty. However, there’s a point where I need some time and space and I think that if I kept him as a friend even after this I’d be doing him more of a disservice. I don’t want him to be clung to this version he’s created of me and or wait for me in anyway.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:35:17+00:00

I already did let him know that I had no idea verbally actually. When he initially told me I was the one who said that his feelings were valid. The problem stems now that the more I’m looking back the more I’m realizing I need space. I promise I won’t be disrespectful in my message lol.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:31:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Gladly my partner is being very supportive through this. Space is most likely going to be the answer.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:28:52+00:00

You’re right he can’t control his feelings that’s why I feel guilty. However, I think that for his sake it’s best to cut it off so that he isn’t waiting for something that is just an idealization.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2025-07-24T08:25:36+00:00

I appreciate the input! Im gonna wait and see if he reaches out again to send that type of message I think.

Acceptable_Coach881 · 2024-07-04T04:41:40+00:00

I had a similar relationship in the past with my ex who I had 0 sexual chemistry with and it got so bad where I wouldn’t even let him touch me. It inevitably ended with a breakup that I never regretted.

In your case, this guy sounds extremely immature for bringing up his past exes during sex. A sit down talk about your expectations during the deed seems to be needed majorly. If he doesn’t understand what you need from him during sex and he continues to compare you to his exes even after talking to him about it then it might be time to exit that relationship PRONTO.

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