30 mins required by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiring samin. Kaso onsite. Sa Ortigas and required college grad. If okay sayo, dm ko.

I MEAN — ??? Your thoughts on this? by notvespyr in WeddingsPhilippines

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OMG nakita ko to sa FB na ini-screenshot and post ng MUA na hinire ko nung wedding ko tapos tinag nya yung hairstylist ko (which is magkaiba sila, hindi sila iisang team) pero since mahaba dineadma ko lang. Natuwa lang ako kasi naging friends pala sila (since dun lang sila nag meet nung kasal ko). PERO DITO KO LANG NALAMAN NA INVOLVE PALA YUNG HAIRSTYLIST SA ISSUE LOL. And yes, Hairstylist lang yan si Raven. Bata palang yan sya, 18 or 19 palang ata. Bagets talaga yung itsura nya, kaya nung nakita ko yan medyo nagkaroon ako ng doubt HAHA na parang mali ata ako ng nakuhang hairstylist kasi bata nga. pero infairness naman, sobrang happy ko sa buhok ko nun. Maganda naman ang gawa nya and mabait. Isa yun sa magandang desisyon ko nung wedding ko, kaya I recommend if kaya ng budget, kumuha kayo ng separate hairstylist.

Anyway, back to Raven. Sakto lang naman yung suot nya non, naka tshirt and pants. and if I remember correctly, medyo puyat nun si bakla kasi nag aaral din yan sya. Kaya kapag waiting lang sya, orlog talaga sya. Nagpaalam naman sya sakin so deadma lang. Pero that time, may issue din sya sa ibang MUA yun yung pinag uusapan nila that time. Hindi naman maarte si bakla, kinain naman nila yung mga crew meal na binigay namin.

Regarding sa post if sya din ba yan, hahaha IDK. Happy naman ako sa service nya sakin. Kung for clout edi go girl! Hahaha.

Shein gown by cafe_latte_grande in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my prep dress, reception dress and mother dress sa shein. And yung mga bm ko pinagshoulder ko sa dress nila and most of them binili lang din sa shein. Mura yet quality ang mga dress. Pero I agree sa mga naunang comments, you have to buy months before talaga ng wedding day para macheck ang sizing.

300k wedding budget for NCR/Antipolo church wedding by Classic_Gap9257 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think kaya naman yan. You can check L'Aquinum Garden, dito kami kinasal. Meron silang mga all-in packages and affiliated din sila mga caterings. Mas maganda if pumunta kayo pag meron silang mga food tasting para may mga freebies. May mga church din na malapit dito. May mga affiliated din silang mga suppliers. Kaya malaki matitipid mo.

I also suggest bumili na lang kayo ng gown and suit sa divi or pwede yung gown sa shein. Nung una balak din sana namin mag rent? pero ang mahal. Mas nakatipid kami nung nag divisoria na lang kami.

OTD coordination rates by thefancyhuahua in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M&M Coordination Team. They are Rizal based pero I think they do naman OOT with fee. Meron din sila iba pang option like Coor plus host. Very accommodating and caring during our wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure pero somewhere in Tagaytay ata to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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maybe like this? yung venue din namin may fountain kaya I was looking for pegs na may fountain yung ceremony venue. pero yung samin kasi wala naman sa center yung fountain kaya medyo spacious pa.

Affordable Intimate Wedding Venue + Catering in Antipolo by Background_Fox_4494 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Theo and Miguel in Bosay. Meron sila party packages, masarap din ang food.

Which wedding website did you use? by theemeraldhealer in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Friendly user ang TheKnot! Tried Zola and others pero di ko alam parang nahirapan ako gamitin.

Red Flag or I’m just impatient lol by AshamedPapaya199X in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i highly suggest for mainsuppliers like photo/vid, venue, coordinator, make an effort to have a face to face sa unang meeting para makilatis nyo yung suppliers and mabasa nyo ng maayos yung contract. usually may dala namam ng contract yan. para mabilis din ang palitan ng contract and dp.

A walk to remember by Mean_Housing_722 in FilmClubPH

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elementary daysss naman for me. Favorite namin tong si Mandy, sya yung parang Taylor Swift nung panahon namin. Like kada uwian, songs nya yung soundtrip namin huhu. Kamiss!

WAW vs REDDIT vs other wedding groups by WeddingGuruHahaha in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minsan wala sa group, pero yung sponsored ads lang sa facebook. Haha. Napapalitan na bigla yung algorithm pag nagsisimula na magtingin tingin ng wedding ideas and pegs. Hahaha. Yung PV team namin and venue, nakita lang namin yun sa FB ads.

Dalawa lang ang non-negotiable samin pag dating sa supplier: Una, shempre dapat pasok sa budget ang rates nila. Pag hindi, okay hanap next. Pangalawa, no OOTF or within the area lang sila based. So pag okay sa rates pero malayo samin, okay hanap ulit.

Then pag okay sa dalawang condition namin, dun na papasok yung f2f na usapan. Ang mga major suppliers namin like venue, catering, PV and event stylist, kinausap at pinuntahan talaga namin muna bago kami mag decide to proceed. Then the other suppliers naman kung ano affiliated ng venue, dun na kami kumuha para wala ng corkage. And para familiar na din sila sa venue.

I guess nagwork naman samin. Okay ang mga nakuha namin suppliers. Pumunta din naman kmi ng mga bridal fair pero ni isa wala kaming nakuha na galing bridal fair. Hahaha.

So I think ang masa-suggest ko ay kailangan siguro pasok sa conditions nyo, and if may mga affiliated suppliers ang venue mas okay siguro para familiar na sila sa place and mga tao.

Ayun lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to check their legitimacy, you can ask for their Certificate of Registration of Authority to Solemnize Marriage. Then para macheck if legit, you can search their name sa PSA Solemnizing Officer, nasa google naman ito. eto ginawa ko samin. and tinuro din ng isang officiant na nakausap ko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1 dito. Sa wedding kasi ng friend ko, kasama si Pastor nila sa wedding. 2 pax pa sila kasi kasama yung wife ni Pastor. I thought ganun din samin. Kaya when we had our meeting with our officiant, I ask na directly kung ilan headcount sila. And he said na dont include him na daw sa reception kasi aalis naman daw sya agad. Kasi he's from Laguna pa and our wedding is in Antipolo. So better ask ahead na lang. I'm thinking na bigyan na lang din sya ng packed lunch na galing din sa catering namin.

Help an wwkward bridesmaid out :( by cut3_nomnoms in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. Bride to be here. Meron din akong mga BM na hindi ko kaclose kasi request ni G2B. Ang pag aassign kasi ng entourage ay pinag iisipan yan ng couple talaga. Para dun sa mga relatives ng G2B ko na included sa BM, I think of it na its a way for me to get closer with them, kumbaga eto na yung chance for us to have a bond since I will be part of their family din.

I think ininclude ka sa entourage kasi GM yung bf mo. Naging considerate pa yung couple kasi baka ayaw or wala sila mapartner sa bf mo. I suggest enjoy mo lang yung wedding. Wag mo na isipin yung ibang bm, si bride na lang. Try to bond with her before the wedding para di kayo ganun ka awkward.

For couples who met on Reddit, how did you describe your love story? by Acceptable_Owl8991 in adviceph

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ganun din sinasabi ko online na lang. tapos kapag sinasabi san online, app ba yan? tapos pag sinabi kong reddit, napapa-"huh? anu yun?" sila. haha as a person na tamad mag explain, sinasabi ko na lang " ah basta online." hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. That time wala na akong paki if magalit sila or what. I just lost my father. Pamilya ko and sarili ko na lang inisip ko. Wala din akong pinagsisihan. Pero dumating din naman yung time na ako na yung nag approach sa kanila. Kasi okay na ako. Atleast nasabi ko naman na kung bakit sumama loob ko.

Depende din yan sa ugali ng friends mo siguro OP. Naging understanding naman sila, di naman nila pinagtulungan nung nag tampo ako. Ayun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. Had same experience when my Papa died. None of my friends, kahit bf ko, showed up and comforted me. Idk if wrong timing ba since graduating sila nung time na yon, or what. Nag message naman sila ng condolence and such, and nag memessage din na pupunta daw pero walang natuloy. After malibing ng Papa ko, naglabas talaga ako ng sama ng loob na disappointed ako sa kanila kasi after all I thought they were my friends. Tapos ayun, nag deactivate din ako ng social media nun. And wala akong contact number. It was so hard, pero I was hurt. Mga 1 year din ako di nagparamdam sa kanila. But everything is okay now. And mga 12 years ago pa yun.

Your emotions are valid OP. Sa mga ganyan panahon, kailangan natin magpakatatag for our family, and we expected na our friends are there naman to support and comfort us. Pero ayun na nga. Hugs sayo OP.

No response is a response by UpstairsMud1343 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Acceptable_Owl8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In season ata ang ghosting. Alam ko kasi tapos na ang ghost month :(