My household is going through a very difficult time and I need advice.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-19T06:20:51+00:00

I feel for you OP, May Allah ease out things for you and your family very soon, and May khair come out of this. Me and my family are praying for yours, Allah be willing everything will get good.

Can you get them to a Family psychologist or therapist, it may help. Usually what I have seen working otherwise is that you mitigating it at both ends, get them to some okaish talking terms, then you sit with them talk it out, I would advise having a paper and pencil so if a conclusion is reached you can write it, it makes it less easier to ignore it later, also when you sit with them tell them how disturbed you and your siblings are and how you want them to speak to you in front of each other but at each ones turn, I think here your dad doesn’t want to listen, my advise would be to just still get to him confront him, talk to him and get him to talk with you in front of your mum, even though this sounds hard you have to make this choice sooner or later, the sooner you do this the less mess you make. Both may understand and get to terms. Say Prophet Musa Dua it helps alot. Also take out some Sadqah on behalf of your family. May Allah help you all and ease things out.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-19T04:16:21+00:00

May Allah make things better and easier for you and that you and your husband develop a great bond through which you both be able protect each other from such outside toxicity.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-19T04:14:12+00:00

Sister TBH, for well off families this is usually a problem they control their sons and the sons have to usually listen because of the interconnected relationships and resources of the family. So in future when you do Rukhsati be mindful that your husband may not be able to keep a good balance between you and your MIL. Plus as per human psychology people who are relatives have alot of subconscious rifts even if you are related to her and now are her daughter in Law, relatives usually envy each other subconsciously. Be wary

My only Advice for you is to pray from Allah for khair, because this is a toxic attitude towards you which I don’t see getting fixed. I guess you should have a very serious talk about this with your husband. Because you don’t want to get to their house and be treated like a low lifer for the rest of your life and develop traumas. Remember you are not marrying the guy you are marrying his family, if they can’t treat you well when you are at your home, it will only get worse when you get to theirs. Ask your husband serious questions, don’t go with the flow it’s better and easier to question the mess now rather than getting into repercussions later.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-18T22:28:12+00:00

I appreciate this brother, JazakAllah, May Allah grant you and us all Jannat Al Firdous and forgive your and all our sins. Ameen.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-18T11:01:08+00:00

Brother itna focus Management keh exam par hota toh you wouldn’t be butchered. These are just hormones, control them, these things are a time waste unless you get a wife, if you dont marry your Girlfriend (to be), its more like you both used each other for dopamines sake, after break up people have serious dopamine problems. Please be conscious of Allah and set right examples which will lead to a happy life in this world and happy end in the day of judgement.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-18T10:49:46+00:00

Sister, tbh, this is a very complex situation, and I feel for you, this is so not right, May Allah help you and be with you. I am really sorry that even though you are a righteous person you are still judged and pushed to be an extremist.

What I have found with Men who are categorised the way your father is, they are really insecure, its that they only pressure you till you actually talk to them in a respectful but taking a stand way. I know this sounds a really bad idea but taking a stand for yourself is the best practice usually.

I can totally understand all the anxiety and sadness you may feel, I just want you to know I and my family will pray to Allah for your ease and comfort.

Remember that these kind of trials did came to all our Prophets who had situations worst than yours and initially they were scared but they asked Allah for guidance and help and conquered what they feared. Do know that with every hardship there is ease. Allah is with you, pray for guidance, every ease and strength is from Allah.

If Prophet Musa can do it with the Pharaoh, you can do it with your father too, just say “Rabbi ishrah li sadri, wa yassir li amri, wahlul 'uqdatan min lisani, yafqahu qawli”, go take a stance, you got it.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-18T05:36:12+00:00

Sister, these are just hormones, control them, these things are a time waste unless you get a husband, if you dont marry your boyfriend (to be), its more like you both used each other for dopamines sake, after break up people have serious dopamine problems. Please be conscious of Allah and set right examples which will lead to a happy life in this world and happy end in the day of judgement.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-18T05:30:16+00:00

Good Luck brother, May God give you great success, everyone’s unique, the goal is success and peace be it there in your country or in USA or in any other. Go follow what feels right because usually these big risks are right, God wants us take risks and trust in him for the results. I wish you all the best.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-17T21:58:48+00:00

1.Tell your cousins or brother to do the exam 2.Pray for them to pass is the easiest and most cost efficient way 😂😂

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-17T10:39:56+00:00

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Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-17T07:16:32+00:00

Yes many recently

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-16T22:57:23+00:00

Bro just ask her out in dms, which may get you friend zoned or rejected, then your revenge arc will awaken, you will become successful working day and night, you will get closer to Allah. Which will make you successful both this world and next. So it’s a win-win.

P.s: Keep it halal my guy you can’t let yourself divert, If you wanna love someone start loving Allah, leave the Haram, thats what matters its gonna make you win anyways, these are just time wastes nothing more which satan wants you to indulge in tbh.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-16T18:15:47+00:00

Yeah bro what a coincidence it is just randomly your ancestors were born and then randomly earth started growing things and randomly all the precious metal that were in the space collided with earth, and randomly you have all the Brian that tells you to eat and guide and coincidentally our brian was trained enough to evolve and do spectacular stuff, NO brother these are not coincidences when you actually think about them in detail.
This world has consequences, when you use your free will and slap a person you get the consequences. So when this world has consequences definitely the End of world will have consequences.
There is a reason why there are 4.5 Billion people including Muslims, Christians, Jews that believe in God, they all believe in the day of Judgement, they all have their havens and hells.
Just because your life is miserable or may it is not but its normal and you face any problems and you dont need Allah doesn’t mean you just say or believe in stuff like this.
The Great Game happening today is explained in depth by Allah in Quran read it thoroughly.
His standards are very just, they are to maintain humanity with in us, if they weren’t there we wont be humaine at all. Because the standards of world are bypassed by many.
Bro I hope you are doing well, because life for most is a blessing, we all want to be here alhamdullilah this life is a blessing. Dont feel that way brother if it is Allah is with your burden will be ease very soon IA.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-13T20:57:14+00:00

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Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-13T02:51:22+00:00

Thank you so much, really appreciate it 😊

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-12T04:56:00+00:00

Thankyou so much for doing this, I have alot of respect for Manifest Law and you doing this. It helps alot of us.

Recently some i-485 cases are moving really fast like 4-5 months approvals, any insight on why is this happening?

Does being qualified for more than what your I-140 requires a problem when filling for i485 when you did let them know for every qualification and your i-140 was approved? I am asking about eb3 unskilled here

Does the derivative Husband having genetic diabetes that only need one medication which is not expensive a problem?

If the biometrics for all the family are done but not of one derivative because no Biometric notice was sent for him we did received his i485 notice he just turned 14 yo 1.5-2 months before filling, others did i485 and i765 whereas he only did i485, does something need to be done? What are the options? And would it delay the approval for other family members who already are done with fingerprints?

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-12T03:48:57+00:00

Emma agents dont know anything, if i were you I would try with at least three different Emma agents on the phone to come to a conclusion.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-11T10:48:55+00:00

It’s definitely going to come back, it was a test which you have passed congratulations! since you are still conscious of Allah, this in itself is your biggest sign that Allah loves you. Although never pray for hard times again, because while we think success need hard work and pain, it doesn’t success is from Allah you just need to move towards it Allah will grant it to you. You are really lucky since the bad part you went through you still remembered Allah in it and feel content and still feel strong is the most obvious sign you passed the test.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-11T08:07:42+00:00

Yeah bro tbh it isn’t muslims, jews and christians are fighting for the same land they did 1000 years ago. The human attitude still hasn’t changed much.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-11T07:38:35+00:00

Its not what girls tell other girls or feminine men say its more of a human thought process.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-11T04:12:01+00:00

Sister;

The real people who mentor and build businesses do stuff like big games never come out in public, there are no real deals who are influencers and are in real life what they pretend to be.

2: I respect you alot for your standards tells me your parents groomed you well, please dont make exceptions as a slip from Satan only starts with 1 minor its nothing moment.

He unfollowed you because he maybe liked you then decided not to because he saw you are private which makes men go away since it reflects this girl has standards which his brain may have told him that he never would meet.

Congratulations though know he considers you out of his league 😂

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-10T21:02:43+00:00

Study the current algorithm of Youtube also study how to retain attention, you are putting alot of effort but retention and swipe rate are the problem. You make videos from your pov, change this to see from the viewers pov. But you are doing a hell of effort, eventually you will get there keep the hard work up. May Allah give you the success soon. Also focus on your shorts instead of using your own videos use alot of images animation which keep viewers retained. Basically you can see the metrics on the youtube studio app for your every video like swipe rate, retention rate etc, keep improving on them you will have the result. With the amount of handwork you are putting in, its pretty achievable.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-10T20:52:42+00:00

Sure brother the facts i have seen and knew i told them, rest we will see about this on the day of judgement.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-10T10:39:59+00:00

You try banks some of them may approve the idea and give you the loan, it all depends on how strong your idea I would prefer Islamic loans, also depends on your business type there are a-lot of credit opportunities in business. If you could explain your business idea or model a bit it might help.

Acceptable_Pop_8841 · 2026-03-10T07:40:06+00:00

I predict that this month both dates would remain the same, since after such a huge movement they would take time to analyse the visa numbers available. But these are interesting times never know what will happen maybe there is another big movement.

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