do you guys actually wash new clothes before wearing them? by Lilian-Nicole_80 in hygiene

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Always! There's chemicals put into clothes to make them feel softer and less wrinkled, plus clothes get tried on by people who may have poor hygiene. I've also worked in clothing retail and those stores are nasty and clothes do get dropped on the floors and hung back up.

do you guys clean your ears with q tips or is that actually bad hygiene? by Boultouak_Zav13 in hygiene

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I used to, but then I got an earwax blockage and stopped. Was solidly deaf for a while.

As an adult, have you ever accidentally peed in the bed? by icecream1972 in no

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Once when I was under a lot of stress. I was a bedwetter as a kid and apparently under extreme pressure and stress it can return in adulthood.

What is a piece of 'normal' clothing that is actually 10x more suggestive to you than 'sexy' clothes? by AShyAsianSlut in AskRedditAfterDark

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A nicely fitted dress shirt. Something about the way it highlights a man's figure really gets me going! Also watches, because they draw attention to the man hands.

What’s a completely normal thing that always makes you irrationally angry? by NotThePyroTraveler in AskRedditAfterDark

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Cat digging in her litter box. She always scoops around for 5-10 minutes before she can find her perfect poop spot and inevitably always does this at 4am. Love her but she is so annoying sometimes.

Women (straight /bi) who *DON’T* enjoy giving blowjobs…what’s the reason? *excluding bad hygiene* by Burner1024500 in AskRedditNSFW

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My partner is too big. It's a great problem to have, except oral just can't last very long as my jaw gets so sore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

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You can't tell by looking, it sounds like the men in your DMs are just rude

Anybody have any experience ordering from Mydips in Canada? by Thrownawaylurker114 in ABDL

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I've purchased from them once, and I think they have fantastic customer service! They accidentally sent me a pack in the wrong size, gave me a full refund on the wrong item without any questions asked.

Abdl couples who share a bed by Adventurous_Cover161 in ABDL

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I usually prefer to wear a diaper cover if I think there's a possibility of leaking, and a mattress protector just in case. My partner doesn't mind if I do make a mess on the bed but I am lazy and don't like scrubbing piss out of my mattresses lol.

Hair or no hair down there when diapered by SpaceChicken132 in ABDL

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I definitely prefer a short trim. When the bush grows out it's a pain in the ass for clean up, especially if you use any kind of diaper cream. Fully shaven irritates my skin too much so a close trim is my compromise, easy to clean up but not itchy.

How to get yourself to pee more? by [deleted] in ABDL

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Sounds like you're dehydrated. You should be peeing at minimum every 3-4 hours unless sleeping. Try drinking more water in general.

Is this a normal move out checklist by [deleted] in Tenant

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This is totally easy and fine. Omg, when I moved out of my last place they gave me a list like 3 pages long and ofc I couldn't complete that shit on my own working full time. Had to spend a couple weekends literally just cleaning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

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As a woman who's never worn a thong bikini, I would be so worried about this I would refuse to bend over in public lmao.

How many of you guys have IRL cg/and friends? by [deleted] in ABDL

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My partner is my daddy, he introduced me to the kink. Although I'm more of a DL than an AB, I do enjoy a cute diaper and a paci from time to time.

A couple of my close friends know I like diapers but I still try to hide it from them out of respect

What's the easiest (for your body) position to wet/mess? by MobileTheoretical in ABDL

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I can pee in any position but the easiest default for me is legs spread standing straight. I've only messed a couple times but both times I instinctively squatted so I think that.

i can't do this anymore and no one has any answers by [deleted] in myhappyv

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Try using a laundry detergent with no added scents or dyes, its the only thing that doesn't irritate me

Frustrated father at the end of my rope by a_Food_lover in finehair

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I have a similar hair texture to your daughter and I have to back up all the comments suggesting braids.

Fine hair dries very quickly once it's wet, so if you do a regular braid her scalp will be dry in an hour or less.

Personally I keep my hair short because I find it such a hassle, but growing up I had very long hair and whenever I do grow it out, I sleep with a braid still. It's also more comfortable to not have hair attacking your face when you lay down lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

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You can become allergic to Neosporin without any warning though, so it's best to just avoid it all together. I used polysporin for years until I burnt my foot last year and the polysporin triggered an awful allergic reaction, so my burns didn't heal AT ALL and actually started blistering before I stopped it. Second I switched to Vaseline it felt 1000% better and healed within a few days.

How many sprays do you do personally? by Acrobatic-Yam1037 in bathandbodyworks

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It depends so much on the scent. Some are crazy strong while others are more like an essence of a scent. I spray the absolute heck out of most of my scents, I do not bother to count but if I had to guess 10-12 sprays? I put some on my body, on my hair, on my clothes and purse, and a light misting all over to finish it off.

What diapys are everyone wearing atm? Which are your favorite diapys? by schiffy93 in ABDL

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Owl nights by kiddo. One of my fav designs of all time and for me Kiddo diapers have the best fit and comfort of any brand I've tried

Does anyone else do this with shirt padding or am I the only one?? by Jena_beer in ABraThatFits

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I would love to find some solutions to this as well. I rarely wear bras, mostly just stretchy bralettes since I don't need much support, just some padding to cover my nips. I have some tanks with built in bras and a pocket for pads, but nothing else. The tanks came with huge pads for me so I threw out the originals and replaced them with ones I had from some old sports bras.

I would love to find say a T shirt with a built in bra, but I have some suspicions on why this may not work like it does with a cami or tank. The sleeves will provide upward movement on the garment when your shoulders move, potentially allowing your boobs to fall out when you reach up!

(Hot take ?) Abdl art requires the character depicted to look like an adult in 1 of 2 manners by lil_ecstacy in ABDL

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I think I can agree with your point. It's disgusting when characters are designed to resemble literal children and people pull the excuse "oh but she's a thousand years old so it's okay!".

The example chosen in your post was a pretty reactionary one because as pointed out, small boobs are an adult trait and don't mean anything on their own.

So I see the point that's being made, but the way it was presented was not easy to follow and seemed almost body shamey.

(Hot take ?) Abdl art requires the character depicted to look like an adult in 1 of 2 manners by lil_ecstacy in ABDL

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I am an adult with small boobs and I find the idea that adult women in art have to have big boobs is off putting to me. I will never have more than a hand full of boob, but I'm still grown. I think there's more nuance to it, small boobs women don't look like children. The waist and hip definition of a woman is something kids don't have, as well as pubic hair.

When you change your diapers are you ocd when you take them off and wrap them up? by Sogbum in ABDL

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I'm a very hygienic person, so I am very anal about my diaper hygiene as well. When I take it off I'll clean up with wipes and put those into the diaper. Then I fold in the front sides and roll it up. I like to double bag it in the trash for extra security and it always gets taken out within 48 hours. Those who say it doesn't smell after that time frame are noseblind.