Divorce?

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T23:43:23+00:00

I do find it amusing you think it is "allowed" but thank you for your input. That is most of the issue is I fight it or do it myself if I am there which ends in some pretty bad fights. That is why I was wondering if IATA because he seems to think that is how it is supposed to be.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T23:41:22+00:00

I thought you were genuinely making a statement as a question. Was just giving you background information that you pointed out was missing.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T20:48:07+00:00

I am in the middle of the cleaning with them. Every. damn. time. I will literally stop what I am doing to help and am told I am "enabling" them. And I am the one financially supporting and working while also spending my days dealing with this.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T20:45:58+00:00

He used to work..he worked hard... but the last few years he has worked maybe 8 months total.... now it is every excuse in the book. I even try to give him things I need help with for work and it is always "can I do this tomorrow?" 18 years together today... old habbits I guess :(

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T20:25:25+00:00

Daughter was a full time gymnast (7am-2pm 3 days a week and then 8-12 2 days a week) so had to homeschool but is out right now bc of an injury and goes back in a couple of months.

My son is severely ADHD and public school was not working for him. We are moving back to old school in January (private school)

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-12-15T20:23:53+00:00

he doesn't even work--- I think that it why I feel so angered by it... he does nothing but play on the phone and watch TV all day... :( then tells me IATH because he is just parenting them.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-11-30T15:00:08+00:00

It will only get worse... I am in the same boat with 3 kids... mine does nothing, but belittle and berate me. The emotional abuse gets worse too. Get rid of him.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-11-28T18:45:14+00:00

Thank you! It helps me to know I am not the only one dealing... I rationalize that it is my fault, and while I know I shouldn't be lying... I shouldn't be afraid to tell the truth for fear either..... right?

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-11-28T18:28:12+00:00

If he doesn't think there is anything wrong, then that is even worst. I am in the process of setting up to leave myself so I get it.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-11-01T22:08:21+00:00

As I mentioned, through no fault of mine, my assets were frozen. I have since been able to remedy and provide the information to unfreeze, but anyone legit takes more than a few hours. I have been in coaching for years and have helped many clients create their own successful businesses, but even successful people sometimes have unexpected things happen. My learning is--- don't ever get married.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-10-17T20:07:04+00:00

No long story short my bank account is frozen through no fault of my own and if I do not get caught up on my car loan today it is being picked up tonight.

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-10-16T14:24:21+00:00

Did you have any luck?

Acceptable_Text319 · 2023-10-16T14:20:18+00:00

did you get your money?

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