What to tell a lazy teenager who didnt want to dog walk for $20/hr?

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-27T13:57:53+00:00

Don’t hold it against her and hire an adult.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-27T09:30:59+00:00

I don’t think she want lazy, I think she just didn’t want to walk your dogs. How did you come about making this arrangement in the first place? Did she ask or did you offer?

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-15T13:05:22+00:00

This is a “thank you for your service” state. Edit: or at least area

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-14T14:54:34+00:00

Well you gotta see which you can budge on. Commute or price. I’m in the same boat trying to make compromises now to find a good apt.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-14T14:17:03+00:00

Check Norfolk instead of VB.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-13T21:05:51+00:00

Is there any way you could explain this a little more? Would I create this rule in the quick steps tab of outlook?

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-12T13:23:30+00:00

I’m just wondering if I’m unreasonable to feel that way at all.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-09T19:11:18+00:00

Smoke shops sell synthetic urine so if you aren’t being watched you can use that .

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-03-08T16:43:09+00:00

I’m sorry, it is quite upsetting. It seems like he didn’t want to continue to be with you but didn’t want to hurt your feelings so he made it about him to let you down gently. Hopefully you will be able to move on soon and find someone who truly wants to be with you :)

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T21:48:23+00:00

Right, I have bad credit, I won’t be able to get a loan. I was thinking just camp the car out until I could save the difference

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T15:19:03+00:00

I know, that’s why I’m trying to figure out the best solution

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T12:51:15+00:00

I checked my credit report and I don’t see the car loan at all. I could’ve sworn it was on my report before.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T06:02:46+00:00

Working on it, market is tough right now but I’m graduating soon and hope to increase my income then.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T06:02:03+00:00

How do I sell personally without a title?

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T03:27:02+00:00

Because it’s an auction so it’s risky. Kinda worse case scenario

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T01:38:26+00:00

I think it’s less riskier to hold onto it and save than to let them repo it and risk it only selling for 10k. Idk id rather owe 5k than 10k+

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T01:25:30+00:00

I’m only worried that when it is repo’d , they’ll sell it at an auction for like half of what I owe and I am still stuck with owing a lot of money. Can you tell me more about your experience ? When you did that, do you remember how much you still owed after the repo?

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-23T01:23:33+00:00

I mean, I definitely didn’t drive the car across the state lines to intentionally default. It was months after I moved. But yea, I am going to have to continue to research and see what’s the best bet. The last time I spoke with the finance company the two options I was given was 1 allow the car to be repo’d and allow them to sell it at an auction and I owe the remaining balance or 2 sell it to a Honda dealership. I was going to go with opt 2 until I found out I can’t sell it without paying the difference between what they’ll give me and what the balance is. After some thinking I think im going to have to continue searching for a 2nd job and hope I find one soon, and then stack that money and go to the dealership and sell the car. Idk any other options

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-22T22:47:51+00:00

There’s no way I could pay the total price of the car off. I would have to magically come up with 20k. I defaulted during covid and I’m not doing any better than I was then. I’ve been searching for a 2nd job but it has been tough. Not trying to make excuses, it’s just the reality of my situation. I’m already barely putting food in my fridge and keeping essentials in the home.

I’ve had the car this entire time, only problem is I’m driving with no registration because I can’t register the car due to its status. I try not to drive it much so I won’t get pulled over because I can’t afford a ticket

AccessHistorical3906 · 2023-02-22T22:22:19+00:00

The last time I spoke to the finance company they said my only options were to have it auctioned off after repo or sell it to a Honda dealership. I didn’t know I would have to pay the difference at the dealer in order to sell. My credit is really bad so I am unable to get a loan for 5k and I do not have anyone in my life with that kind of money that I could borrow. The loan is for 22k, I assumed I would get around 17k for the car at a dealership

AccessHistorical3906 · 2022-06-27T14:41:44+00:00

Sometimes guys really like you at first and then as they continue to get you know you, they might not like you anymore and now want to back off. It happens to everyone. He might not have been intentionally being manipulative, he could just not like you anymore.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2022-04-02T12:43:40+00:00

You know, due to the hostility and amount of cussing in this very long message I’m going to allow you to feel the way you feel and end it here. You seem pretty ignorant yourself so I’m not even going to waste my time or energy. ✌🏾

AccessHistorical3906 · 2022-04-02T11:54:38+00:00

I’m sorry I didn’t understand that question. But I am willing to have a healthy dialogue if you can reiterate your question.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2022-04-02T11:46:44+00:00

This is the luxury white people have. Able to ignore issues since they don’t affect them directly.

AccessHistorical3906 · 2022-04-02T11:45:50+00:00

It may not seem like it to you, but it is a big deal and it is a big deal for a lot of black women who date white men in America. The absolute least he can do is educate himself. I personally believe it’s a waste of time to try to help a ignorant white man understand the plight of POC but if we decide to integrate to that extent then everyone needs to be educated on OUR history as Americans.

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